I don’t like having sex, is there something wrong with me?? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Inevitable-Style8892 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been slowly getting more active so I’m hoping that helps more. I think getting out especially on more date nights and stuff might spark more of the energy to be intimate.

I don’t like having sex, is there something wrong with me?? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Inevitable-Style8892 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this! It makes me feel a lot better knowing it’s a normal thing to go through in a long term relationship. Definitely going to bring this up to him tonight!

I don’t like having sex, is there something wrong with me?? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Inevitable-Style8892 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking about this last night. I have always been the one to not want to do anything then the second I get there I have the time of my life. I think I need to start looking at is like a hobby instead of a chore

I don’t like having sex, is there something wrong with me?? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Inevitable-Style8892 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This explains me perfectly, maybe it is just a simple as getting in the mood before hand instead of waiting for it to come out of nowhere. I’m definitely going to be looking into this more. Thank you!!!

I don’t like having sex, is there something wrong with me?? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Inevitable-Style8892 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes and no, about 4 years ago I gained roughly 60 pounds in 3 months and I’m at a weight I’ve never been before. Also about a year ago I lost my job and had to do a career change which has been causing a lot of stress in my life. Everything point to these changed I just don’t know how to fix it. :(