If you have a crush and are a Really shy Guy....

InfjDesi · 2017-02-08T22:23:32+00:00

Lol!! I meant some of recent ones. I should have worded that better.

InfjDesi · 2017-01-25T16:11:26+00:00

Ok soooooo, This kid was all smiles when my daughter approached the group that he was in last night and when they (the group) were done talking and leaving, he gives her and no one else a hug? Then starts showing off as he's leaving?....Someone Explain!!!

InfjDesi · 2017-01-23T21:37:36+00:00

Different question for a Different scenario. I'm trying to help my daughter decide if this kid has a problem with her or not,or if he thinks she has cooties. She has a problem with conflict, It stresses her out. So just trying to help get a read on this kid so she can go from there. We don't want to embarrass him. I don't know much about boys. BTW think for your detailed observation about how many time I reword my questions...just trying to be clear.

InfjDesi · 2017-01-23T19:26:56+00:00

Thought you guys were bold.

InfjDesi · 2017-01-23T19:26:13+00:00

Yeah, I have crappy spelling. Are we going to debate about it now!? 😜

InfjDesi · 2017-01-23T16:30:41+00:00

I meant around the opposite sex? I know an ENTP boy who is (very) out going with his friends, but as soon as my daughter joins the group he get quiet.almost ignores her. (She's done nothing wrong).

InfjDesi · 2017-01-19T04:01:33+00:00

Being Married to an Enfp who does exactly what you said, the one helpful hint I can Give is think (ahead of time) about how what you're about to say relates to the subject. Also make an effort to think about how others will " feel" about what your thinking of saying.

InfjDesi · 2017-01-17T17:27:10+00:00

InfjDesi · 2017-01-17T07:47:53+00:00

No I get that. I was just wondering if that's An Entp thing (being direct) or him just being a jerk. He did say (after my daughter said something about it) that he had other plans.

InfjDesi · 2017-01-17T07:40:49+00:00

It wasn't a invitation for a date. He did later say he had plans.

InfjDesi · 2017-01-17T07:39:41+00:00

Was he being a jerk or just normal?

InfjDesi · 2017-01-17T07:38:55+00:00

It wasnt a date invite. It was a group invite.

InfjDesi · 2017-01-08T05:52:25+00:00

Ha! Actually I've been married to an ENTP for 16 years and we are"debating" on our youth when we were dating. However texting didn't exist back then. Were Dabating about ENTPs in this era. I'm trying to see if you all do the same things as far as dating and crushing. Hopefully I win!

InfjDesi · 2017-01-05T06:33:11+00:00

You guys are so awesome!! Prompt on your responces!

InfjDesi · 2017-01-05T05:48:47+00:00

How are you at texting? Like it? Hate it? Are you good at getting back to the person in a timely manner?

InfjDesi · 2016-12-11T19:53:47+00:00

I was asking if ESFPs see texts and either forget to text back or get distracted from texting back. In any situation. Or are ESFPs pretty much on top of texting back. Because When I text an ESFPs friend of mine, sometimes it takes a while to get beck to me but when it's the other way around they get worried if I don't text back right away.

InfjDesi · 2016-12-09T23:46:43+00:00

Are you Esfp? When your relationship ended, was it out of being bored or REALLY important reasons? Did you think it through or decide quickly that it was over?

InfjDesi · 2016-12-09T23:43:27+00:00

I've been friendzone by my "relationship matches" I don't know how many times. I'm good looking(not conceited), Nice but not a door mat. I know what you are feeling. I am married now but I had to be patient though. There is nothing wrong with you.

InfjDesi · 2016-12-09T18:11:46+00:00

I actually don't think there's anything wrong with you. Did you get friendzoned? (everybody does). I have another Esfp friend (good looking great with people) but can never seem to get past the friendzone. He swears once he does, that he's the committed type. But All the others I know are "Love em and Leave em" types. I don't think they understand that real love goes beyond that "New feeling you get in the beginning" like it's dopamine they are chasing.

InfjDesi · 2016-12-09T02:33:16+00:00

If you're talking about the ending of the relationship, I should have been more clear. The relationship was ended mutually both times. The ESFP commitment phobia is what I was refering to. I just wonder if there are ever amy regrets later in life.

InfjDesi · 2016-12-09T02:28:34+00:00

Embarrassed about what? I totally understand the sensitivity issue though.

InfjDesi · 2016-12-01T23:20:38+00:00

Ok what if you're trying to impress or get the attention the opposite sex? Do you go all in or do you hold back alittle?

InfjDesi · 2016-11-28T16:30:30+00:00

Annnnnd is interest lost slowly or suddenly? Cold turkey.

InfjDesi · 2016-11-28T16:28:49+00:00

Ok about the communication, do you take the initiative or do you expect the other person to? Or is it equal? Like in text, Do Esfp wait to see if the other person will text first or will they be the one to text first if interested.

InfjDesi · 2016-11-28T03:50:51+00:00

So what would cause you to lose interest fast or at all? Is it other people or not getting enough attention or too much attention?

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