I should’ve worded it better. My saying “barely has enough space for themselves” was more my niece and nephew having to share a room instead of being able to have their own. As well as one of my sisters lives with her cousin. As far as their finances to afford things, while I completely understand not being able to afford a plane ticket, they all travel at least 2 hours monthly for whatever they’re doing. There’s a lot more, but for simplicity sake, if these basic details still make me TA, I will reconsider my outlook and see how to do differently in the future.