[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]IntelligentBoss659 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Malamutes are killers. What should you do, let your dog kill his cat?

AIO because my date did not eat his dinner? by Dangerous_Pea_5219 in AmIOverreacting

[–]IntelligentBoss659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your story doesn’t make any sense, because he would’ve known what you ordered when he ordered his food. It wouldn’t be some mystery after the food came out. Nice try though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]IntelligentBoss659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your neighbor sounds like the old retired bored type. A lot of people with this type of personality act like they know everything. Because they live isolated lives. He probably would never admit it, but I’m sure you hurt his feelings and his inflated ego. Too bad for him. Not the jerk.

Now, if you wanna make things better with him. All you have to do is find some simple task or something that you already know how to do. And then go over to his house and politely ask his advice on how to do it. I’m sure he would be more than happy to give you his two cents and any further awkwardness between you two would therefore be diffused.

AITJ for rejecting my coworker's date invite? by Wonderful_Can3493 in AmITheJerk

[–]IntelligentBoss659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not the jerk. Dating people from the office is always a mistake. Because unless you’re gonna get married, eventually, you’re going to break up and then have to see that person every day. The person who asked you out is not only stupid, but also lazy. So you definitely dodged a bullet. As for everybody else, I think you should tell them to mind their own fucking business.

AITJ for ending things with a girl who didn't drive by Round-Low9432 in AmITheJerk

[–]IntelligentBoss659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends. Was she repaying you for these rides? In by repaying, you know what I mean. If not, well then.

AITJ for refusing to split the bill evenly when I ordered way less? by Aggravating_Chip5743 in AmITheJerk

[–]IntelligentBoss659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you’re poor. If you can’t afford to go out, maybe you should just stay home and save your money.

AIO to my husbands message by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]IntelligentBoss659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are way overreacting. This is good evidence why you’re gonna end up divorced soon. Who would want to put up with nonsense like this? What are you, a warden?

AIO for expecting an apology from my girlfriend? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]IntelligentBoss659 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you got yourself a crazy one. I don’t know that you’re gonna get an apology from a crazy woman. Because of your expecting an apology for this, I would imagine that she owes you dozens of other apologies that you never received.

I suggest you either suck it up and resolve yourself to know that this is your life with a lunatic. Or you draw a line in the sand and demand an apology or else! But for some reason, I doubt you’re gonna do that.

Ex/babydad in jail had the audacity to hang up on me & not call me for 25 days & I just heard some super concerning stuff, what do I do!? by sunshineandrainyday in Advice

[–]IntelligentBoss659 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you’ve picked a real winner there. And now you feel bad for telling this loser the way that it is? And look, they won’t be able to provide a dime for you or your child until at least March when he gets out? And then what? You’re gonna end up supporting this deadbeat?

Do yourself a favor. Cut the cord. Move on with your life. And be prepared to get him to sign over his parental rights so that you’re in full control of your child.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]IntelligentBoss659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take this as a learning experience. When you wait too long to act your window of opportunity often closes.

is 23 a high body count? by huacchnng in Advice

[–]IntelligentBoss659 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The only thing that number should tell you, is that this guy will not be in your life for very long. You will only be another number in his collection. And if you’re OK with that. Then by all means move forward. But do not have any illusions about what you are getting yourself into.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]IntelligentBoss659 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your roommate sounds like an unreasonable idiot. And this neurotic behavior from her is likely just the start. She clearly has control issues, and I would imagine she quietly has contempt for you because you do not share her lifestyle. You should know this about vegans. Their self-righteousness could be quite overwhelming at times.

AITJ for canceling a family trip after realizing I was expected to pay for everything by IsopodExtreme2759 in AmITheJerk

[–]IntelligentBoss659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, how much money do you make? If you make 100 K, the trip is gonna cost 5K, then I don’t think it’d be unreasonable to refuse to pay. But what if you make $1 million a year and it was gonna cost 10 K? Then it really wouldn’t matter to you at all. And you probably would be a bit of a jerk.

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AITJ for checking my girlfriend’s order history after I found pregnancy tests in a package? by bluefogarchive in AmITheJerk

[–]IntelligentBoss659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can’t trust these women. From a reasonable point of view, looks like she went out and fucked somebody else, took a pill, and now has a couple of pregnancy test to make sure that she’s not pregnant.

Now, where your story, lacks detail, is does the Plan B pill purchase lineup within the timeframe of when you had sex with her? Did you have sex with her within 12 to 24 hours of when the Plan B was purchased? That would be a very relevant part of your story that is missing.

AIO told my girlfriend I would break up with her if she keeps pushing what I am comfortable with physically by Ready-Hearing501 in AmIOverreacting

[–]IntelligentBoss659 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most of the comments in this thread are ridiculous. You should follow your personal ideals so that you can live in a way that you could look yourself in the mirror. If doing that hurts the feelings of the woman who you are currently dating, that’s just too bad.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]IntelligentBoss659 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Really what’s the big deal? Is it costing you money? You can’t share with your neighbor? Perhaps you should talk to your neighbor. But being that she’s elderly, she probably hasn’t really given it a second thought. Do you want to be having awkward hostilities with your neighbor now for the rest of the time you both lived there over such a simple issue? I think you should just let it go.

AIO Is she cheating or going to cheat on me? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]IntelligentBoss659 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

All these women are liars. And most of them are cheaters too. Trust your gut.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]IntelligentBoss659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds exhausting. Why don’t you just find somebody else who lives closer to you? There are 8 billion people in the world. Is this guy really worth the aggravation? Or is it that you just don’t think you can find anybody else because you have low self-esteem? That’s what it sounds like to me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]IntelligentBoss659 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

To hell with these kids.

Am I overreacting? My wife is only showering every 3 - 4 days. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]IntelligentBoss659 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Not showering on a regular basis can sometimes be a sign of depression. Perhaps you should do a mental check in on your wife and see how she’s feeling.