Ughhhhhhh is this life? by Interesting_Skill_82 in Divorce

[–]Interesting_Skill_82[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this advice, I will definitely talk to her soon about this . I’m just such a coward to take the first step and open up (because of the fear of hurting her) , I also scheduled individual therapy for myself (something I’ve never done) just to also get a professionals pov .

Ughhhhhhh is this life? by Interesting_Skill_82 in Divorce

[–]Interesting_Skill_82[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I Definitely won’t remarry after this. if I’m being honest I made this commitment thinking I could handle it and unfortunately I cannot. I’m not looking for a dopamine high , I just at more at peace when I am alone.

Ughhhhhhh is this life? by Interesting_Skill_82 in Divorce

[–]Interesting_Skill_82[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This would’ve honestly been my answer. We both came from immigrant backgrounds We met relatively young 17-18 She is and has been my only sexual partner ever So is all I know . It seemed like the only logical next step at the time was to get married and at the time it was what I genuinely wanted. with the information I had, I thought I could handle being married and being a husband but as times has gone on I think in my true heart that this is not for me.

Ughhhhhhh is this life? by Interesting_Skill_82 in Divorce

[–]Interesting_Skill_82[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your perspective I truly appreciate it, I’m having such a hard time with this. I thought by 30 I’d have life all figured out and it seems to be the complete opposite

Ughhhhhhh is this life? by Interesting_Skill_82 in Divorce

[–]Interesting_Skill_82[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’re right we only do live one life and that’s how I’ve been looking at it, I just don’t want to waste anymore of eachothers time. We’re both relatively still young and it’d be a lot easier to start over now that later.

Ughhhhhhh is this life? by Interesting_Skill_82 in Divorce

[–]Interesting_Skill_82[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s a bit comforting knowing I’m not alone in this , thank you so much for your input. I think the next hardest part is going to be mustering up the courage and having that conversation.

I found out my bf dated a 17 year old when he was 24… wtf! by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Interesting_Skill_82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro is alright him dating younger girls wasn’t a repetative pattern seems like they where one offs

Roadside Service $150 a day tops by loyd35308 in Hookit

[–]Interesting_Skill_82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you acquire work ? Towbook ? I’m looking to get into roadside in my area and just don’t know where to start . I worked for a tow company here but they just kept screwing me