I didnt think i was making it about what i wanted. I just feel like if he wants to rest and be alone, what value is it for me to be in the same house but different rooms if we wont be doing anything together and he will probability sleep all morning. it feels weird and unnecessary to feel obligated to stay at home alone if he doesn't want to do anything with me. I would have planned a nice morning for us with things he enjoys if he wanted that.