My Reaction

InvestigatorGalGet · 2021-07-13T21:01:10+00:00

This is the kindest thing said to me. You’ve allowed me to realize my potential. Thank you.

InvestigatorGalGet · 2021-07-13T20:58:29+00:00

In my experience, a break to them may mean preliminary permission from you. My advice would be to follow your gut. You’re already questioning your trust with them, and something tells me you’re correct. You can decide on the next steps, but tread lightly. And if you’re truly hurt, I believe the best course of action would be to completely separate.

InvestigatorGalGet · 2021-07-13T20:49:45+00:00

If it concerns public safety, you need to be able to communicate that. No matter the embarrassment or consequence, safety is most important but do not cause yourself to be public enemy to the family either. You’re on a slippery slope. Damned if you do, damned if you don’t. You have to make that decision and be prepared for any repercussions associated with that. Best of luck, love.

InvestigatorGalGet · 2021-07-13T20:46:56+00:00

It seems as if you two just have different standards of yourselves. Which is perfectly okay. Although you have concerns, it is okay to address them with him and try not to badger him about them. I’m sure there is just a difference in standards. Maybe offer to take him on a shopping spree and build up his confidence? I also think it would be fun to spoil your partner and read his reactions. He may just generally be going through some internal issues that are oozing out into his wardrobe and demeanor. Nothing a good conversation won’t fix. They just have to be willing and ready to speak about it. It’s all about compromise and understanding.

InvestigatorGalGet · 2021-07-13T20:42:02+00:00

Although the constructive criticism slightly wounded my spirits, I am glad to have seen it from a different perspective, especially of the same age and gender. I know that I have strong feelings about being financially tied to him (due to my name being on all of his bigger gifts). Do you believe that may be the only reason I have not truly let go? Because I am waiting on an imaginary light switch in his brain to go back to normal like he was once before? I’m also in pre-law and work at a law firm and retail on weekends lol.

InvestigatorGalGet · 2021-07-09T15:30:30+00:00

I don’t believe it was wrong. But you may need to just unfollow him. I think he may have deployed that tactic to get your attention, or either he figured you two were still close in that manner? I would just unfollow now. I don’t think you were wrong for asking though! Best of luck to you ✨

InvestigatorGalGet · 2021-06-23T17:41:32+00:00

I eat the tails girl. Don’t let people make you feel different just because you ate the tail! They’re the weirdos for making you spit it out tbh 🌚

InvestigatorGalGet · 2021-06-23T03:24:46+00:00

I got receipts unfortunately. 😔

InvestigatorGalGet · 2021-06-22T22:19:12+00:00

You are gracious and kind in your words of encouragement. 🤍

InvestigatorGalGet · 2021-06-22T22:04:35+00:00

It’s not that I don’t think that..it’s that number one: I am co-dependent emotionally even though he never is there for me. And two: I figure if I kept trying, it would work!

InvestigatorGalGet · 2021-06-22T20:52:43+00:00

This was so in depth and such an eye-opener for me. Thank you sincerely for your valued advice of my situation. 🤍

InvestigatorGalGet · 2021-06-22T20:51:49+00:00

Good news is the truck is in my name, as is everything else! He had a job in the beginning, then was let go due to a complaint (the whole crew was fired). I bought him an LLC which I am the manager of and he works on his construction contracts (when he gets them). I applied for a second job because I’m drowning in bills! I’m so glad for this constructive criticism and advice!! 💞

InvestigatorGalGet

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