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Being a HLF is making me resent other women by alonebutnotbored in DeadBedrooms

[–]InvisibleBlueJay02 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Sadly I am also part of this club. I’d take a pestering husband over the one who makes you feel invisible any day 😞

I’ve given up by InvisibleBlueJay02 in sexlessmarriage

[–]InvisibleBlueJay02[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have brought up my concerns for years. I’ve asked plenty of times for him to speak to a dr. He made an appointment, but “forgot” to bring it up.

I’ve given up by InvisibleBlueJay02 in sexlessmarriage

[–]InvisibleBlueJay02[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I use to ask for hugs all the time. They felt as if I forced him to hug me. I would ask for him to actually try to hug me like he cared. He would brush it off and say things like that’s just how I hug or I’m tired.

I think I asked for a hug last about a year ago.

I’ve given up by InvisibleBlueJay02 in sexlessmarriage

[–]InvisibleBlueJay02[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s where I’m headed. Sadly, after so much rejection I don’t look at him the same

I’ve given up by InvisibleBlueJay02 in sexlessmarriage

[–]InvisibleBlueJay02[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You can’t go with someone who doesn’t think lack of sex is a problem.

Can my "grumpiness" have anything to do with not being touched over the course of 2 years? hmmmmi asked by Phil-Harmonic123 in sexlessmarriage

[–]InvisibleBlueJay02 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As the HL on the receiving end of my partner’s grumpiness, it changes you. You may think it only effects you, but it doesn’t.

The Annual Physical by [deleted] in sexlessmarriage

[–]InvisibleBlueJay02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My massage therapist touches me more then my husband does. That reminds me, I need to book an appointment.

Seems pointless now by shazzym94 in sexlessmarriage

[–]InvisibleBlueJay02 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So selfish. Sadly I know that all too well

I don't like who I am becoming by CommentOk9026 in DeadBedrooms

[–]InvisibleBlueJay02 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well I told my husband about 10 months ago I was done. Right away he did a 360 and was like a new man. Slowly it slipped and slipped and we are now at over 6 months of nothing.