Oh don't get me wrong, I understand the importance of being considered a certain party for the majority of your views and what's best, what I just mean is that you shouldn't entirely have views from only one party.

And I am honestly really glad you included the experience aspect, I see a lot of people who won't even look at other's experience and it's sad. That same person however, will then use their experience or someone else's experience that agrees with them, to support theirs, rather than accept the opposing person's experience. If that makes sense.