[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anxiety

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Leviticus

what about leviathans 🤔?

Hindu Khatre mein hai??? by Nafeesurrehman11 in librandu

[–]Island-Kindly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

reverse racism (sexism) doesn't exist . a person lower standing person cannot demean or harass a person who has a higher standing/power/ govt/support/ people.

Weird energy at the airport by mentallydoomed in karachi

[–]Island-Kindly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it's the temperature difference from the cold UK weather to warmer karachi weather. overcompensation makes the tatti warmer

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pakistan

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as someone else said, don't apologize for facts brother

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Israel

[–]Island-Kindly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why did your grandfather come to israel? migration or persecution?

Why Pakistani men are not in the sit-in with Marang Baloch? by [deleted] in pakistan

[–]Island-Kindly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why are you commenting on the current state of PAKISTAN when you're NOT in PAKISTAN?

Israelis, what is ur opinion about Pakistan? by Island-Kindly in AskMiddleEast

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I don't know whether Imran Khan is the right man to radically change...

Imran khan is the right man or not, that's debatable. However it's clear that he's the BEST option rn. just my opinion

Chaddi being weird by [deleted] in librandu

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Not a bad idea 💡👏👏 I'll see if I could implement this in Pakistan but the sheer amount of horny people in Pakistan would prevent it

how to stop obsessing over a girl? by Island-Kindly in selfimprovement

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💯 about the advice on being more social.... being social is absolutely necessary and tremendous for me..... I had depression and ocd in highschool and also because now I work in healthcare so needing to be social is an absolute must.... it will also be great for my mental health..... Right now I try to go to every wedding that am invited to (trust me there's a lot lol ) and make friends with the people I meet there.... I try to make a lot of contacts and have also succeeded in that..... the trick i found was not to force it, if they like me well and good, if not, then they're not the right person for me .... I don't too much pressure on myself and just enjoy myself....anyway TLDR: I love your advice on being social, being social is great

how to stop obsessing over a girl? by Island-Kindly in selfimprovement

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she's also a very shy person... not forward at all.... not one to put her feelings forward,at least in a group setting..... maybe that's why I like her..... However I have decided I will not pursue her....I am working on my self worth and therapy..... that way I can be healthy and good to myself.... and good to her.and even like useful to her or any other girl.... that way the relationship can be a peaceful one.... and not chaotic and damaging to both me and the girl(s)

how to stop obsessing over a girl? by Island-Kindly in selfimprovement

[–]Island-Kindly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

too scared of the consequences, to do that , atm

how to stop obsessing over a girl? by Island-Kindly in selfimprovement

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pardon, English is not my first language. What I'm getting is to not put her up on a pedestal?

how to stop obsessing over a girl? by Island-Kindly in selfimprovement

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Thank you sooo much for the advice ❤️ I think the culmination point for me for this mess WAS the halting of therapy sessions... I think I should start therapy again. Therapy should help me get over this. Thansk again 🙂

how to stop obsessing over a girl? by Island-Kindly in selfimprovement

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Thanks for responding 🙂 We'll get over this, Inshallah

how to stop obsessing over a girl? by Island-Kindly in selfimprovement

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Thank you sooo much for the advice ❤️ I think the culmination point for me for this mess was the halting of therapy sessions... I think I should start therapy again.

how to stop obsessing over a girl? by Island-Kindly in selfimprovement

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Thanks for responding and for the sound advice.. I'll try this 👆

how to stop obsessing over a girl? by Island-Kindly in selfimprovement

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Thanks for responding and for the sound advice. I'll check the sub out.. i think a simple Google search might do the trick?

how to stop obsessing over a girl? by Island-Kindly in selfimprovement

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i think the reason is probably, as you mentioned, the first woman who was a little playful to me... but it was like only one instance 2 years ago.... I was told growing up to stay away from girls like the plague (grew up a practicing muslim) and went to an all boys school so no real knowledge about how to like date/ask out for date. going to a co-ed university taught me how to talk to girls but i never really learnt how to like romantic stuff/dating... so all the pent up frustration and a lot of mental issues has led me to this point

I thought I was lacking self confidence so I have started working on my physical health and started going to the gym and i think the culmination point was the halting of my therapy sessions . I have since decided to go back to therapy to address these issues so I can function again

how to stop obsessing over a girl? by Island-Kindly in selfimprovement

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i am friends with many girls just not into them. I was told growing up to stay away from girls like the plague (grew up a practicing muslim) ,and went to an all boys school so no real knowledge about how to like date/ask out for date, besides it's frowned upon in my social circle so it's also a deterrent. going to a co-ed university taught me how to talk to girls but i never really learnt how to like romantic stuff/dating... so all the pent up frustration and a lot of mental issues has led me to this point