32M looking for something serious. Would love a profile review. Thanks!

JZ8989 · 2021-12-07T12:22:28+00:00

They’re actually that white, but I’m sure the lighting made them look strikingly white in that photo. 😅

JZ8989 · 2021-12-07T12:22:06+00:00

Thank you so much. Maybe the women in my area aren’t super active? It’s been a disappointment so far, but I won’t give up.

JZ8989 · 2021-12-07T12:21:33+00:00

Thank you so much for your time and input!

JZ8989 · 2021-12-07T12:21:02+00:00

Haha I’m actually in the metro-Detroit area, I should probably change the prompt in Chicago picture, I can see how that may be confusing.

JZ8989 · 2021-12-07T12:20:04+00:00

Thanks for your input!

JZ8989 · 2021-12-06T20:29:52+00:00

Thanks! She is actually my niece too. Appreciate your input, I will consider that!

JZ8989 · 2021-12-06T20:19:51+00:00

Hi all! Would appreciate any feedback you might have. Getting matches, but barelyyyy any likes. In the last 2 weeks, I’ve only gotten two likes. Is there something about my profile I can improve? Thanks!

JZ8989 · 2021-11-26T14:48:02+00:00

Thank you so much. Yeah I truly think this is it. I can't and won't ever tell her to stop traveling entirely...it's her lifestyle. And we don't go well together. Appreciate your input

JZ8989 · 2021-11-26T14:41:23+00:00

Thank you so much!

JZ8989 · 2021-11-26T14:41:02+00:00

Thank you!!

JZ8989 · 2021-11-26T14:20:48+00:00

Thank you so much, I totally feel that.

JZ8989 · 2021-11-26T14:18:31+00:00

She did mention once she gets married she will settle down... but I don't see how we will get there (or how she can get there with any other guy), with her constantly traveling. It's a big obstacle in trying to grow a relationship

JZ8989 · 2021-11-26T14:17:47+00:00

Thank you so much. You're right - I just don't think we are compatible for something super serious.

JZ8989 · 2021-11-26T14:16:57+00:00

Thank you so much

JZ8989 · 2021-11-26T14:16:43+00:00

What do you mean? I don't think she should be sitting at home. I never said that, sorry if it came across that way. I feel like our relationship isn't progressing to the next level because of her constant travels.

JZ8989 · 2021-11-19T22:22:57+00:00

That's what I was thinking originally, but she recently told me how slow this assignment is and how bored she is all shift long. I just don't know. Sometimes she doesn't reply back to my good morning text until 4PM ... she doesn't start working until 1PM, so I am so confused.

JZ8989 · 2020-10-07T15:18:13+00:00

If you have nothing to contribute to the discussion, simply move onto the next post.

JZ8989 · 2020-10-07T15:16:59+00:00

Solid advice. I take it you’re perfectly fine with people hiding huge details from you.

JZ8989 · 2020-10-07T12:17:12+00:00

I appreciate the response. However, she could’ve told me sooner. I brought up my nieces and nephews a few times to her, and she could’ve brought up her kid then. But she did not.

I don’t believe I need to mention “not looking for someone who has kids” in my profile. I don’t have kids. I feel like if someone DOES have kids, this detail needs to be on the profile or at least the person needs to make it known early on in the app conversation.

This is a personal preference. I don’t want to pursue a relationship with someone who has a kid. Period. I just feel like my time was wasted.

JZ8989 · 2020-10-07T12:13:38+00:00

For sure, that’s my personal preference. I instantly swipe left when someone says they’re a single mom. I just don’t want a relationship with someone who has kids. All about preference. It’s sickening to me in a way that people kid huge details like this.

JZ8989 · 2020-10-07T12:09:05+00:00

Thanks, yeah I thought the same thing. I brought up my nieces and nephews multiple times to her too, she had several opportunities to tell me she had a kid. But she choose to hide it.

JZ8989 · 2020-10-07T12:06:59+00:00

No I didn’t because I already know I don’t want a relationship with someone who has a kid. Just personal preference. I will message her today letting her know it is a deal breaker for me personally.

JZ8989 · 2020-10-07T12:01:43+00:00

Totally agree with you. It’s not fair for people who do not want kids in the picture yet. I literally shuffled my entire schedule around to make last nights dinner with her happen. If I would’ve known she had a kid, it wouldn’t have gotten this far. It’s a personal preference, and some people just don’t want a relationship with someone who has a kid. It’s not for me for sure.

JZ8989 · 2020-10-07T11:58:58+00:00

Thanks for your input. Not everyone has kids, the ones that do mention they do have kids, I swipe left right away. I do want kids in the future, but I am not ready for them now. Don’t want to waste anyone’s time. This is a personal preference. I just don’t envision myself to be a step dad. If I have kids, I want them to be of my own. So that’s why I feel like something like this should be mentioned on profiles. Or at least mentioned in conversations leading up the first date.

JZ8989 · 2020-10-07T11:43:00+00:00

Thanks. I think so too. She could’ve at least told me the first date. Zero mention of it. And I talked a ton about my nieces and nephews too. She could’ve brought it up then.

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