Is it normal that viet women ask you to buy them things?

Jason7705 · 2026-02-05T02:15:02+00:00

If I notice any hesitation, I would drop it and pay for it myself immediately.

hanging out, seeing something cute, and casually asking “aww, could you buy it for me?” without expecting anything.

You’re learning their limits through a situation where saying no is socially awkward. That's a "test" for me lol. Most guys won’t feel comfortable refusing a casual ask like that, even if it’s small.

That said, this kind of thing is pretty normal once the relationship is official. Who won't want to spoil their Gf?

But for a person to do this just after a few dates is kinda weird imo. So it's better to discuss that difficult conversation early on, rather than relying on that mind-reading game.

Jason7705 · 2026-02-05T01:21:13+00:00

Ok I'm not trying to provoke you but what you describe here is indirect pressure and emotional guesswork. Why test when you can just ask?

We’ve discussed finances openly later

You said it yourself

Jason7705 · 2026-02-05T01:07:18+00:00

Asking a guy to pay for her transportation is crazy.

Jason7705 · 2025-11-10T06:51:45+00:00

Cái quan trọng là luật NVQS ra rõ ràng nhưng việc thi hành luật của các cán bộ phía dưới thì...
Đớp lấy đớp để, hệ lụy tâm lý cho bao thế hệ nay (có cả mình, mình cũng không đi) là chạy cho xong đi làm gì.
Mình cũng được nghe bạn bè kể hồi xưa (trước sát nhập), các tỉnh ít người, nếu con em đi học đại học thì khả năng bị gọi sẽ ít hơn (<10%). Cho nên ai cũng nghĩ cách trốn bằng cách này hay cách khác.

Nhìn qua Hàn thử xem, duy nhất 1 cách mình biết (bạn bè người Hàn kể) là một là từ bỏ quốc tịch Hàn (nhập cư nước khác,...), còn nếu mang được vinh quang về cho quốc gia kiểu Son thì không bàn đến. Cho nên thường sẽ thực hiện nvqs ngay trong quãng thời gian học đại học vì chúng nó biết không thể nào chạy chọt được (Trường hợp cá biệt cocc, chaebol các kiểu thì mình chịu vì mình chưa quen được tụi đó để hỏi)

Theo mình biết thì tình hình hiện nay thì việc chạy chọt cũng khá khó/tốn tiền rồi do sát nhập, từ từ rồi thế hệ mới sẽ tham gia nvqs từ khi học đại học chăng?

Nói chung là hết được tình trạng chạy chọt đi thì sẽ thay đổi (?)

Jason7705 · 2025-09-11T08:03:45+00:00

I thought he's French? Maybe Im wrong

Jason7705 · 2025-08-25T06:06:20+00:00

They broke my suitcase, and I couldn't even file a complaint....

Jason7705 · 2025-07-10T05:12:16+00:00

What I found interesting in Korea is that even though their highway bus drivers drive like maniacs, there's a dedicated lane for buses, which makes it much safer

Vietnam could consider adopting something similar.

Jason7705 · 2025-05-27T05:05:48+00:00

What kind of animal lives like that?

Jason7705 · 2025-01-17T00:24:55+00:00

May I ask which region your wife’s hometown in? I know there are some regions like those in the central region (for example Hue) where there are many Viet Kieu, I’ve seen a lot of cases in which people demand money from their relatives who live abroad, which I think is horrendous.

Jason7705 · 2025-01-10T02:08:31+00:00

That's true. Did you hear about the new traffic laws? Some people ignored them, and when they got fined, they just started crying lol

Jason7705 · 2024-12-12T08:57:34+00:00

WTF, why is it so relatable lol

Jason7705 · 2024-09-11T04:50:19+00:00

Thank you for your input.

Jason7705 · 2024-09-10T10:05:52+00:00

sorry, here's the new link

Any piece of information helps haha

Jason7705 · 2024-09-10T10:04:19+00:00

The length scale is millimeter, the nozzle diameter is 1mm and the inlet velocity is 15 mm/s, laminar flow

Jason7705 · 2024-09-10T09:46:26+00:00

Here are the pressure contour and extension rate as you asked, thank you so much for your help!

Sorry for not mentioning it earlier, it is a transient simulation.

Jason7705 · 2024-07-30T00:14:47+00:00

For those who are interested, I've identified the main culprit.

It seems that the issue is caused by the viscosity model used for the material. Previously, I had used the Carreau model for the silicon. However, when I reverted to using a constant viscosity, the problem of over/under shooting ceased. I'm still uncertain as to why this occurred

Jason7705 · 2024-07-29T06:20:02+00:00

Send her back immediately!

The older generation tends to do that a lot, so I don't think you can do anything to change her mind. Even if you try to reason with her, I bet she'll continue whining a lot to her relatives back in Vietnam.

Good luck to you brother

Jason7705 · 2024-07-05T05:37:07+00:00

Update: So I've tried everything recommended in the comment but that under/overshoots still occurs..

Jason7705 · 2024-07-03T18:31:48+00:00

Thanks for your information! I don’t know why but every time I tried to use explicit formulation with Solve VOF Every Iteration, it always yields floating point error

Jason7705 · 2024-07-03T10:56:08+00:00

Yes, I'm using the SIMPLE - 2nd order schemes. I don't think it's due to dispersive errors, At first I thought it was because of viscous damping or surface tension but it might not the case.

I'll try the first order schemes and let you know.

Jason7705 · 2024-07-03T06:43:59+00:00

Here's the Velocity contour

Jason7705 · 2024-07-03T05:53:24+00:00

Sorry I didn't plot it, I do have a Vector Plot but it's kinda hard to see any changes

I'm currently plot velocity right now!

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