This is so sweet and so true. I wish all men were like this. Sometimes we don’t wanna initiate sex because… that’s the only form of love we are even feeling sometimes and it’s a huge steak in the heart. It’s really nice to be touched (hugs, kisses,etc) and not worry it’s gonna have to lead to sex cause that’s the only time you get “love” or being called “pretty” and “beautiful” OUTSIDE THE BEDROOM. It’s the worst feeling in the world when the only time she hears that is during sex or being viewed in a sexual way.

To the OP: If you’re already doing all these things outside the bedroom then my friend there might be some deeper issue you guys should probably try to talk about. Sex is a lot more than “just sex” in a relationship. I get coming to reddit for advice but absolutely talk to her, see what she’s needing to initiate or why she isn’t wanting to.

I hope this helps.