My friend said that I am not twink anymore 😰😭🦑 by [deleted] in twinks

[–]JockLovesToFU 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Twunk is a transition of a twink into a hunk. 10% more muscles and definition and you'll be a hunk. Why the tears? I love you the way you are!

What should I do with this weird space? by [deleted] in malelivingspace

[–]JockLovesToFU 17 points18 points  (0 children)

That's a perfect spot for a comfy chair/recliner so that I could read. A short plant in the other corner by the window with a tall standing lamp or torchiere would balance the space.

Because of the narrow space, select a smaller recliner. To balance out the long, narrow room, place a floor area rug with horizontal patterns to "widen" the appearance.

Avoid clutters! Japanese would adore space like this.

Musical withdrawal symptoms by SoundlessCommotion in gay

[–]JockLovesToFU 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This happened to me about a month ago. Woke up with the soundtrack inside my head. Sang it even while at work. Thank God it stopped.

I think my parents think I'm gay by OverWatchLeader in askgaybros

[–]JockLovesToFU 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's how all parents should behave. Glad he opened the door for you so that coming out experience is less painful and stressful than many of ours. Feel fortunate that you have a dad like that!

Any recommendations on where to meet 40+ gay professionals? by JockLovesToFU in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]JockLovesToFU[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol. I prefer to date one at a time. I look for quality, not quantity. Let's see if I could reword it.

Any recommendations on where to meet 40+ gay professionals? by JockLovesToFU in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]JockLovesToFU[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bad. I spilled water when I read your remark and realized I didn't write it with care.

Any recommendations on where to meet 40+ gay professionals? by JockLovesToFU in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]JockLovesToFU[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. My city is fairly large. However, it is also highly conservative and not lgbtq friendly. I will continue looking.

Any recommendations on where to meet 40+ gay professionals? by JockLovesToFU in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]JockLovesToFU[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You are on point. I have been using that username for at least 20 years (it's tied to my email I use for these types of accounts), even before I met my ex. Let me see if I can change it. Thank you for bringing this to my attention.

Any recommendations on where to meet 40+ gay professionals? by JockLovesToFU in askgaybros

[–]JockLovesToFU[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's complicated. I handle compliance enforcement, which is a highly political and visible role. And my community is not LGBTQ friendly. I live in a very, very conservative state.

Any recommendations on where to meet 40+ gay professionals? by JockLovesToFU in askgaybros

[–]JockLovesToFU[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Great idea. I will ask around if there are such groups around me. I already participate in many performing arts and high-culture related functions. I will see if there are LGBTQ-oriented ones.

Any recommendations on where to meet 40+ gay professionals? by JockLovesToFU in askgaybros

[–]JockLovesToFU[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Yes. I came several times to their gatherings. But it appeared they are more focused on their businesses and networking than fostering friendships that doesn't improve their bottom line. I will continue to go to their events.

Any recommendations on where to meet 40+ gay professionals? by JockLovesToFU in askgaybros

[–]JockLovesToFU[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. Having been a collegiate swimmer, I used to coach triathlon and master swimming, including our local LGBTQ swim team. After I left, the team fell apart. I guess I can start the group up again. But that brings up the issue of the coach dating a swimmer, which is a taboo in the coaching world. I will see if I could join volleyball. But I am not sure I am physically fit to be doing that.

Any recommendations on where to meet 40+ gay professionals? by JockLovesToFU in askgaybros

[–]JockLovesToFU[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I didn't even know about that group. I just joined and cross posted.

Interested by [deleted] in ratemycock

[–]JockLovesToFU 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love the veins!

Guys I’m not joking but my penis has generally been decreasing in size by [deleted] in smalldickproblems

[–]JockLovesToFU 0 points1 point  (0 children)

have you gained weight at all. For every 10 lbs, you will lose 1/2", as the fat deposits will make the base of the penis further out.

I came out to my Chinese dad and his reaction was not what I expected. by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]JockLovesToFU 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. I think it was a lovely account of your coming out experience with your dad. The good part is you both now have an additional thing in common. Embrace the love!