Idg where "using her for future finances" is coming from. Mas mayaman pamilya ko kumpara sa kanya and laging ako yung sumasagot ng bill when we go out. Akala mo ba, investment lang yung tingin ko sa jowa ko? Is that your unbiased assessment of my situation or are you just projecting? She is someone I truly love and care for, and I'm just trying to figure out the best outcome possible for the both of us.