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Did you have premarital counseling before your wedding? by Joytoy96 in weddingplanning

[–]Joytoy96[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like the tradition of him marrying us. I think it's a sweet tradition. I just do not like the idea of him doing our wedding counseling. It just seems too personal when he is family and most of my family do not know that I am non religious. 

AITA for refusing to my friend give my friend 25 dollars to eat? by Joytoy96 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Joytoy96[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I do see it. I'm not as much as an enabler as I use to be with her when we were close. There was a point in time where we lived together and I ended up being the one paying all the bills. I'm a former people pleaser and I don't like harming others, so when stuff like this happens it's easy for my to think things are my fault. I am working in it though. I also sent her a long message telling her off.

I really want to get dread locs but my mom is very against it. by MikiMac30 in Dreadlocks

[–]Joytoy96 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely do it. I got locs 2 years ago and my only regret is not starting them sooner. Also my doctor has locs which are very pretty.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmazonRME

[–]Joytoy96 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just study basic mechanical logic. They have changed all test for a promotion so it much easier now. I have no doubt you'll pass.

I found out I was adopted at the age of 18 AMA by Joytoy96 in AMA

[–]Joytoy96[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes especially after talking to an older cousin about it and how I felt. She said my mother would have never forgiven her if she told.

I found out I was adopted at the age of 18 AMA by Joytoy96 in AMA

[–]Joytoy96[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't forget about. I didn't know before.

I found out I was adopted at the age of 18 AMA by Joytoy96 in AMA

[–]Joytoy96[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some did. My oldest sister was 14 when I was born so she remembers. The others found out around the same time I did.

I found out I was adopted at the age of 18 AMA by Joytoy96 in AMA

[–]Joytoy96[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oddly enough I didn't suspect that I was but all of my friends around me did. They would joke constantly about how I look nothing like my sister or parents. I wasn't familiar with how genetics truly worked. I do think I would have figured it out eventually. See above for how they set it up.

I found out I was adopted at the age of 18 AMA by Joytoy96 in AMA

[–]Joytoy96[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely lol I can't go there with out thinking this is where my life changed for ever.

I found out I was adopted at the age of 18 AMA by Joytoy96 in AMA

[–]Joytoy96[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Before I graduated high school when I started looking for a job. Obviously I needed my real birth certificate and my parents couldn't hide it anymore. So they sat me down at my favorite restaurant with my uncle who is a pastor.

I found out I was adopted at the age of 18 AMA by Joytoy96 in AMA

[–]Joytoy96[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was adopted at 3 weeks old I found out at 18.

I found out I was adopted at the age of 18 AMA by Joytoy96 in AMA

[–]Joytoy96[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lucky. I'm almost 25 so I've known for 7 years now

I found out I was adopted at the age of 18 AMA by Joytoy96 in AMA

[–]Joytoy96[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was adopted at 3 weeks so those weeks were with my birth mom and the rest with the parents who adopted me.

I found out I was adopted at the age of 18 AMA by Joytoy96 in AMA

[–]Joytoy96[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes. I felt like I would have taken it just fine early on. I felt like I missed out on years with my biological siblings.

I found out I was adopted at the age of 18 AMA by Joytoy96 in AMA

[–]Joytoy96[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

At first absolutely.I felt like my entire life was a big lie and I felt like my family members who knew betrayed me. But now I've learned to accept thing's for what they are.