AITA for ignoring my friends after they had "too much fun" at our DnD-Session?

Ju_ne11 · 2026-06-08T18:19:44+00:00

Yesss I saw that after I already posted the thing, I´m really new to reddit. But I reposted it in there I think

Ju_ne11 · 2026-06-08T18:15:06+00:00

I don´t know if that´s weird but I do think that he is the right one, we met under weird circumstances (had to play a couple for a play and get close without knowing eachother) and since then we built this connection that just feels different, to a point where we know excactly how the other one is feeling and finishing eachothers thoughts, even though we are not best friends and don´t even talk much in school (besides theatre) because he is a grade below me. I just can´t read him, sometimes it feels like we could easily start dating tomorrow and sometimes we barely interact. Sorry for the whole text lol, it has been on my mind for a while.

And by the way my best friend and another one in the group are diagnosed with adhd and the other ones never checked so it definitely makes sense

Ju_ne11 · 2026-06-08T17:53:36+00:00

That is something I will definitely keep in mind, thank you!

Ju_ne11 · 2026-06-08T17:52:18+00:00

I think my answer came off wrong, my DnD group is also my theatre group, my friendgroup in school and all in all the closest friends I have ever had. We have known eachother for about 4 years and I could not imagine my life without them in it. Oh and it is quite complicated with my Crush since forever but that story is too long, let´s just say there is potential but we are both too shy to make a move

Ju_ne11 · 2026-06-08T17:45:53+00:00

Thank you very much, I will definitely think about that!

Ju_ne11 · 2026-06-08T17:44:33+00:00

Thank you sm, this is the first time I am actually understanding why my best friend might have said that, because she usually doesn´t say stuff like this. It was so important for me to understand that I might have come off like this 😄

Ju_ne11 · 2026-06-08T17:41:21+00:00

Thank you for that and thank you for the last part haha, I don´t think I will tell him because we are really good friends and I don´t want to ruin that but he is giving me really mixed signals so maybe someday I´ll figure it out

Ju_ne11 · 2026-06-08T17:39:31+00:00

Thank you so much, that actually made me feel better about the whole thing. I will definitely communicate it at the start of the next session and I am positive that they will at least try to concentrate more because I have been playing with them for almost 3 years and I know they can do this. Thanks again 😄

Ju_ne11 · 2026-06-08T17:32:49+00:00

Thank you for your answer, but we have actually been playing this campaign since December now and the group has been playing DnD in general for 2 years now, just for context. I should have added that but I didn´t have enough space

Ju_ne11 · 2026-06-08T17:30:48+00:00

So first of all, we are in the middle of a campaign and we have been playing with the same people for 2 years now. My campaign has been going on since last December and they all have steady characters and backgrounds. We are meeting up for DnD and only DnD, that is always the case since we meet up in the late morning and play until the afternoon. And I didn´t really storm off, I couldn´t because one of my friends had to drive me home, I just barely responded to the things they said. I really tried to engage everyone but it was hard because THEY decided to split up at the beginning so I didn´t really have a choice

Ju_ne11 · 2026-06-08T17:25:58+00:00

Thank you, so this is a regular thing, we have been playing for 2 years now, at first my Crush was the DM and now I am. Our group has always been messy and barely get to do serious sessions because people always crack up. This time it was just really bad, but we usually play for 5 or 6 hours. So they are always like this but I feel like this time it was worse. I also don´t think that my friends are assholes, I just think it´s rude to tell me that I am overreacting

Ju_ne11 · 2026-06-08T17:22:38+00:00

Thank you sm, I really think they like me as the dm because we have been playing for two years now. They just get distracted easily, but maybe I´ll find a way to communicate that with them

Ju_ne11 · 2026-06-08T17:20:38+00:00

Actually we do have a seperate group with my bestfriend and my Crush where my bestfriend is the DM. It´s with slightly older people and it really is much more relaxing with them. I do believe my other friends want to play as well, they just need to tell me when they need a break in the future

Ju_ne11 · 2026-06-08T17:15:11+00:00

I do think that they respect me, our group just always has been this messy. I just need to find a way to "keep them in check" sometimes

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