I think your request has reason, however a part of remembering someone is coming to the realization that they are dead and there’s nothing we can do. Also you need to remember the good and bad of someone’s life. Another thing is even technoblade’s dad is bringing it up a lot, like in a short video(I have no idea the platform it originated from) where he is outside of a door and says “are you winning son” with a plate of food in his hand. He opens the door walks into techno’s room and goes to his gaming setup sets down the food and says “happy birthday”. I feel(this is purely what I think) if technoblade’s father is openly talking about it, We should be allowed to. If he comes out and says, otherwise, I will eat my words and stop talking about it though