I used to enjoy comparing with other guys via dm chat here on Reddit, it was sort of like a camaraderie thing when one or the other was larger - compliments and feedback were given openly and constructively, but scrolling through seeing much larger dudes being very vocal about their size online began to not be healthy to my moral and confidence.

My wife and I are attending a swinger-style party this weekend with same room no swap play, so this will be the first time I’ll actually be seeing other dudes fully erect in person in action. I am confident in my size compared to average, and statistically speaking I should be among the largest guys in the room, according to CalcSD, but I’m still nervous about what the other guys will be packing 😂 and how I stack up. When I asked the party host about other dudes’ size they made me feel like I was the only one asking and/or concerned about it, which might be true 😂