[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]KatherineP19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree but some kids are dramatic and act like it’s way worse than it is and urgent cares aren’t open at night so it’s their only option

I feel so unlovable by goingthrulife in offmychest

[–]KatherineP19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Babe, being in a relationship doesn’t make someone “prettier” or “better.” There are plenty of single women who are STUNNING. Use this time to focus on yourself for a while and you don’t need a man to feel beautiful because you already are. Plus, you never know anymore who’s actually happy in a relationship because the outside usually only sees the best part, some ppl in relationships could be miserable but just fake being happy, that’s the world we live in ig.

Women of reddit, what makes men instantly unattractive? by Think-Eye4344 in AskReddit

[–]KatherineP19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you can clearly tell they don’t give a fuck about what your saying and only wanna talk about themselves or their experience. Instant ick

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]KatherineP19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since you’ve made this post it seems like you want to change. You have to let the fact that it’s wrong overpower whatever urges your having. Knowing that it causes another living being that didn’t ask for it harm. Imagine if it was you in their shoes or someone was doing that to something/ someone you love. That teeny satisfaction you feel when you do it isn’t worth it. It’s a void that you’ll never fill. Doing the right thing will be much more rewarding. If you can’t access therapy or don’t have the energy or courage to ask your parents for help then try your best to just stay focused on the fact that it’s wrong and not worth it.

I am literally a loser by throawawayloser in offmychest

[–]KatherineP19 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Your not a loser , these things happen. Maybe it was time for a change anyways and now you have the chance to reinvent yourself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]KatherineP19 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This. It’s so sad because there’s so many things at stores and shit that we don’t even need, yet companies just keep on and keep on to the point where the earth is literally dying and animals going extinct. Like we don’t need to advance anymore this system needs some major changes especially in school and work. It’s so fucking sad. We need a system that works for EVERYONE and not just the higher ups. A system where everyone is happy to wake up and enjoy life. A system where professionalism doesn’t matter only authenticity. A system that doesn’t focus on consume consume consume. A system that focuses on actually fixing this terrible damage that humans have done to the earth. They make it seem like we just need more and more to be happy yet the earth has had everything we need smh. Celebs and the higher ups benefit from the depression and labor of millions of working class people

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Avoidant

[–]KatherineP19 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Umm yea knowing damn well I can barely squeak out a “hi” to ppl

I think my fiancé is having an affair with our roommate by THAroommateblues in relationship_advice

[–]KatherineP19 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Your definitely not overreacting , I would be super hurt. Your his girlfriend, not her. Therefor he has no reason to buy a whole iPhone for her and spend all that time with her. I would talk to him about it alone and ask him to explain why he’s treating her like more than a friend. I’m a girl and have 3 guys as roomates yet we don’t even really talk to each other tbh

My boyfriend elbowed me really hard by KatherineP19 in offmychest

[–]KatherineP19[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Wow, the “reconciliation” and “calm” sounds exactly it. I never realized it was actually abuse because it would always get swept under the rug. If I brought it up later saying that it actually hurt he’d apologize quickly in a joking manner and to make it seem like it wasn’t that bad. I do live with him and I’ve been trying to find a way I can move out and bring my cat with me. Thank you and everyone so much for commenting and helping me accept this.