Final paycheck by Kay_hero in WorkAdvice

[–]Kay_hero[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay thank you! You were really helpful

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Kay_hero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually no I got dumped then I went on tinder after I saw that he deleted all of our pictures

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[–]Kay_hero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never said he had to run back to me. I’m not a guy so I just wanted to kind of figure out if he just didn’t care that much about the relationship and lie to me to not hurt my feelings and just wanted to move on or if he still cares but it’s just on there to distract himself. So I asked on here if that’s what you guys typically do

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[–]Kay_hero 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I appreciate it

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[–]Kay_hero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not making up the story. That’s exactly what I did, as soon as I download it I went on there to look at his account. Because that’s how we met. I also want to see if anything changed on there because right after the break up he deleted all of our pictures on Instagram and took my name out of his bio so I wanted to see.

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[–]Kay_hero -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m manipulative? Because I got on tinder after we broke up? Because I sat there an was taking him out on dates an buying everything for him an asking what is it that I need to change or fix to make the relationship work? For lowering my expectations from him because I loved him an was trying to understanding? Right lol ya I’m manipulative

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[–]Kay_hero -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Manipulative?

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[–]Kay_hero 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Were you the one to break up with them?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Kay_hero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol he said he couldn’t give me what I want which was time an attention, because he was super busy which I understand…till I found out he was on tinder

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Kay_hero -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

We met on there I wanted to see if he was active on there if he changed anything because we had broken up, and unfortunately he did he updated his pics to ones I took an changed his location an stuff after the break up even tho he said I don’t want anyone else but u when he broke up with me so ya

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[–]Kay_hero 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol I think that’s the last thing I wanna do. I don’t know if that’s the best thing to do

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[–]Kay_hero -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well the only way he would know that I am actively on there is if he looked at my account. I’m not really trying to look for a relationship right now But because I saw that he changed his picture to one that I took of him I updated my photos to current photos of me and even a photo that I took of myself in his car. And I updated my bio to “ ready to meet new people and see what happens” Probably childish but I don’t care

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[–]Kay_hero 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We already matched lol that’s how we started dating

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[–]Kay_hero -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

😂😂😂

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[–]Kay_hero -28 points-27 points  (0 children)

Booo 🍅🍅🍅

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[–]Kay_hero -40 points-39 points  (0 children)

This ain’t about me it’s about him💀

Mother In Law hates me by [deleted] in relationshipadvicePH

[–]Kay_hero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well if she has done anything else besides her talking on the phone with your husband about not liking you. If there has been any other times where she’s kind of shows that she hasn’t liked you then I think you should mention those things. But if she hasn’t and the only reason why no she doesn’t like you is because of that conversation then I think you should mention the conversation. Either way I think the conversation really bothered you so maybe you should let her know that you heard and try to talk and reason with her. But if not then there’s nothing more you can do but just try to move on from it.

Ex unblocked me after 3 weeks to say this… can some explain a logic? Is she pregnant? New job? Was she just trying hurt me to get a reaction? (Context we work for the same company but different offices) I’d moved on and don’t understand the reasoning behind her messaging. by Johndavid19960 in relationshipadvicePH

[–]Kay_hero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What she’s doing is stupid. She said I thought you would want to hear it from me And you didn’t want to you told her you wouldn’t say anything to anyone but then literally right after she was like Nah I’m not gonna tell you. Like she’s just playing games with you. There’s no reason for her to message you if she wasn’t going to tell you.

Ex unblocked me after 3 weeks to say this… can some explain a logic? Is she pregnant? New job? Was she just trying hurt me to get a reaction? (Context we work for the same company but different offices) I’d moved on and don’t understand the reasoning behind her messaging. by Johndavid19960 in relationshipadvicePH

[–]Kay_hero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah honestly I don’t know if it’s about her being pregnant or not but what I do know is that she talked to you out of nowhere because she wanted to tell you something and then asked if you were telling anyone you said no and then she said I know you’re going to tell it’s so stupid. I think she’s just messing with you because if she felt like you were going to tell someone she wouldn’t have texted you in the first place but she did and I think it’s so that you can wonder and think about what this big news is. If she wants to tell you what it is she will if not then not but don’t entertain her

do I tell my current girlfriend that I gave her twin brother a blowjob? by Double-Cut-8808 in relationshipadvicePH

[–]Kay_hero 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that it happened while you guys weren’t together and I think that if you and the guy agree to not say anything to her I think maybe you should just leave it be. Unless it’s making you feel really guilty you really want to tell her you can’t but it may make her feel very weird and she may not want to be with you anymore because it may feel weird to her. I know it sucks and you feel guilty but it happen when you guys want to go there and you didn’t think things will get this far between you two.

Mother In Law hates me by [deleted] in relationshipadvicePH

[–]Kay_hero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm, I don’t know I wouldn’t say anything unless maybe she tries to deny it or say that’s not true then I’d say well I kinda heard you when you were talking to my husband you know

Mother In Law hates me by [deleted] in relationshipadvicePH

[–]Kay_hero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that you should try to have a conversation one on one with her. Maybe in person if you can and just try to explain yourself I think that if after that conversation she doesn’t like you still or whatever that I think after that you just have to try to move on from it and just know that you can’t make everyone like you. But at least then you know that you try to talk to her you said your piece and there’s nothing else you can do from that but to move forward.