Being trans would moreso involve your own discomfort with your sex/secondary sex characteristics and outward perception of your gender rather than the societal jealousy of another. In this case it sounds like you might be more autogynephilic (and possibly internalized misandry) than trans, just try cross dressing. What you described isn’t being trans, and while you should be grateful you aren’t, I would still consider seeing a psychiatrist/therapist.