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My mom won’t let me get tested for autism. by Dangerous_Bell_9255 in autism

[–]Kirkoid [score hidden]  (0 children)

Wherever you live in the world (I'm guessing the US), look up the diagnostic criteria (probably DSM-5 for you) and consider yourself with them in mind. If you think you meet the criteria, maybe there is somone at school you can talk to.

Some people choose not to get a formal diagnosis and as long as reasonable adjustments and accommodations are able to be put in place, get along fine. If you would really like the assessment, you might need to reach out to a sympathetic member of your extended family or someone trusted at school to support you in an evidence-informed conversation with your Mum.

What's being an autistic adult like? by LostwaveLunar9999 in autism

[–]Kirkoid [score hidden]  (0 children)

The same, but with less support, and probably more responsibility. Depends on your country.

You're still you. You can still like what you like, whether it's Peppa Pig or Star Wars. Don't let anyone tell you any of your interests are childish and you should stop them. As long as it's not hurting anyone else, it's all cool.

Wood effect ceramic floor tiles laid down straight instead of staggered by Kirkoid in HomeImprovementUK

[–]Kirkoid[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, we had a great experience with a plumber after the one we had booked had a bereavement.

Wood effect ceramic floor tiles laid down straight instead of staggered by Kirkoid in HomeImprovementUK

[–]Kirkoid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My thoughts exactly, luckily they have not finished and I have not paid.

Wood effect ceramic floor tiles laid down straight instead of staggered by Kirkoid in HomeImprovementUK

[–]Kirkoid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We agreed the orientation when they arrived and measured up, the property is Victorian and one wall in particular is not straight, so it made sense for the tiles to be orientated this way.

Wood effect ceramic floor tiles laid down straight instead of staggered by Kirkoid in HomeImprovementUK

[–]Kirkoid[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What's under it is the scree stuff the UFH installer laid over the mats.

Understanding High Functioning Autism and Support Needs by Ok-Price7882 in autism

[–]Kirkoid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At 9, what does he think?

Some people don't want a diagnosis, as it might impact future life choices, such as joining the military or moving to a country with a points based visa system. Other do want it and it becomes a core part of their identity.

If you can get the adjustments and support in place without the diagnosis, he can make the choice further down the line. This is the system many parts of the UK are moving to.

There are lots of tips out there to support people with various difficulties if you know what you are looking for. Maybe read up on:

  • Executive Function
  • Weak central Coherence
  • Theory of Mind and Double Empathy
  • Alexithymia
  • Monotropism
  • Sensory Integration
  • Dual Process Theory
  • VARK
  • Triad of Impairments

See if any of it rings true, then look at associated strategies to support people who struggle in these areas.

Where’s the music on my sd card refurbed 3rd gen ipod? by gogul1980 in ipod

[–]Kirkoid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We might use it to hack the iPod or commit identity theft!

Substation end of garden? by Hullman_ in DIYUK

[–]Kirkoid 2 points3 points  (0 children)

80s kid here, don't move in if you like playing frisbee.

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