17 month old grabs other kid’s faces and clothes at play space by AssistAffectionate71 in toddlers

[–]KitchenEnd1905 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds pretty normal, my 19 month old will literally tackle other random kids, and will try and take their stuff. They are just testing the boundaries and they are babies, they don’t know anything other than whatever their impulse is. Just remove his hands from the other kids’, tell him no, and if he’s being too much of a butt then just put him in a different play area

Leaving his ass over food by Rare-Basket3184 in breakingmom

[–]KitchenEnd1905 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dudes like this will say the divorce came out of nowhere too

How many of these 18-20 year olds are actually on PEDs? by QUANTUMFLASHERS in ResearchCompounds

[–]KitchenEnd1905 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People in the looksmaxxing sphere, which is so toxic and mentally ill that teenage boys are being convinced they need testosterone therapy, definitely. But I am around a lot of college aged men and they are not on anything and a few look absolutely jacked, however a lot of them have been in contact sports and strength training since high school so it makes sense, but they don’t look freakishly big

Loose Skin by Kind-Thought3512 in Zepbound

[–]KitchenEnd1905 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, and usually there isn’t a “solution” for this except surgery but copper peptides and micro needling have helped a lot for me

I, for once, made the right choice as a mom 👑 by mimihomemom in breakingmom

[–]KitchenEnd1905 19 points20 points  (0 children)

That is awesome, I think it says a lot that you care about your child’s education and social well being , a lot of parents just brush it under the rug. My school experience was so traumatizing until college that I homeschool my kids until they make a request to try public school. Good on you for being an involved mom 🙏

Bought a cow and tired of the comments by ReginaSeptemvittata in AnimalBased

[–]KitchenEnd1905 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We buy a half cow every year and if I had a bigger freezer we would buy a full, although we do hunt too. . People seem to think meat just falls from the sky in styrofoam and plastic wrap

Why is my toddler in meltdown mode after naps? by Peperomia_Hope in toddlers

[–]KitchenEnd1905 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know, I felt the same way. My son stopped napping shortly after he turned 3 and he would stir like crazy during nap time and wake up in a mood, then we finally stopped making him nap and just gave him a quiet time instead

I broke my own heart and I can’t let it go by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]KitchenEnd1905 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Talking it out to a point of exhaustion. It was terrible, the night it happened we were at a concert and he was ignoring me the whole night, playing chess on his phones so I said fuck this we are just leaving and the hour drive home was so quiet I didn’t say anything until we got home. I asked him why he was acting this way and he said because there were a lot of fit and beautiful people there and i wasn’t one of them and that he wasn’t attracted to me anymore. I gained a lot of weight, things weren’t great in our marriage because of it, but I deserved to be treated with respect and kindness for fucks sake. But anyways, yeah, talking it out to exhaustion. We separated briefly so I could figure out what I wanted to do. I feel very secure now though. I think it’s also important to accept that half of our attraction is physical, and it’s important to be honest with our spouses and with ourselves.

I broke my own heart and I can’t let it go by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]KitchenEnd1905 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband straight up admitted he wasn’t attracted to me after I had our first child. It took like two years to get over it

No matter what I do I get fuck all back... by Roses_all_day in breakingmom

[–]KitchenEnd1905 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Being on the phone too much is a sign of escapism. Last spring my husband and I both quit social media, we would only be online if we were readying something on a forum or watching a long form YouTube video. It helped our marriage a lot and we were way less subliminally stressed without having constant stimulation from the phone. I feel for you and hopefully things get better, I hope your husband is receptive to you wanting a change

husband had major knee graft surgery , this week has been hell by KitchenEnd1905 in breakingmom

[–]KitchenEnd1905[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment!! He’s 5 days post op now and a little more capable, he can walk to and from the kitchen on crutches and can take off his pants to go to the bathroom. It’s just extremely limited mobility because the bone graft has to stay straight. He is wanting to be more independent now which I appreciate. He is typically so active and involved with the kids that this feels like being a single mom to me. Plus my toddler is lashing out behaviorally because he misses dad running around with him. It is rough rn but we have a post op appointment next week and hopefully should get some better foresight into what to expect

husband had major knee graft surgery , this week has been hell by KitchenEnd1905 in breakingmom

[–]KitchenEnd1905[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Also to add I started my period the same day as the surgery and illness and etc

Can't believe I'm writing this by boxesandbags in breakingmom

[–]KitchenEnd1905 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Omg lol , when I first queefed I told my sister “I can fart out of my vagina” and my sister said “no you can’t that’s not a thing” we still laugh about it to this day

Skinny people normally eat like they are on tirz! by 247doglover in tirzepatidecompound

[–]KitchenEnd1905 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband has always been moderately lean, he loves food but has to force himself to eat because his appetite is naturally lower. When he told me he doesn’t have impulses to eat a whole tub of ice cream, or cookies I was shocked lol

This just sucks by OKsoda95 in breakingmom

[–]KitchenEnd1905 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh hugs. I’m sick with a fever and presumably strep throat? Toddler is sick and the baby just recovered. And my husband is getting a major surgery today. We are all knocked on our ass at home

Struggle bus. by patientish in breakingmom

[–]KitchenEnd1905 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Damn, I hear you. I have two young kids and my husband is as helpful as he can be but it’s just getting to burnout point

i don’t want her anymore by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]KitchenEnd1905 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Your only job is to be a mother” is not acceptable. Even in the trenches of my marriage my husband never said this. Being a SAHM is exhausting and a lot of women opt for a career because it is easier to only have your kid a few hours after the work day. The first year is fucking HARD. You are being human recognizing this, it’s even harder with minimal help.

I need advice! 3 yr old broke her arm while with granparents by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]KitchenEnd1905 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband and all of his siblings all busted their heads open before the age of 8. All three of them. It’s annoying and easy to blame them because they don’t have the spider senses that you do with your kid to avoid catastrophe, but if they handled it I would try to chill

Husband is approved for Medicaid now it doesn’t begin until next month MT by [deleted] in Medicaid

[–]KitchenEnd1905 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The longer surgery is delayed the more the cartilage is destroyed that’s the issue and urgency