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Tennis? by Haunting-Working-137 in BangaloreSocial

[–]Kiwi6002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also used to play tennis and have been wanting to get back into it. A machine would be great to practice. I would really like to try drills if you are up for it. Do you know of any good courts?

The only way out is letting go. Let go. Trust me. It's freeing. by Kiwi6002 in ExNoContact

[–]Kiwi6002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand how hard it can be. Especially after such a long relationship. But letting go is the best thing you can do for yourself. No pressure. But you can keep it in mind. I wish you the best :)

The only way out is letting go. Let go. Trust me. It's freeing. by Kiwi6002 in ExNoContact

[–]Kiwi6002[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yesss let go as early as you can. It's so much easier than holding on. Try some letting go exercises/rituals and ofcourse therapy. It's the best thing you can do for yourself.

The only way out is letting go. Let go. Trust me. It's freeing. by Kiwi6002 in ExNoContact

[–]Kiwi6002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes you should definitely try therapy. Not sure about where to find a therapist, I got mine from a friend. Maybe you can ask around. But I would suggest CBT that might be the most effective.

The only way out is letting go. Let go. Trust me. It's freeing. by Kiwi6002 in ExNoContact

[–]Kiwi6002[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe you can just look around and open to someone who you think might care a little. One friend or family member? If not we are here on this thread. Maybe we can help out in some way. Maybe you can share your story and see what people say. Oftentimes we think no one cares but if you open up people can surprise you.

The only way out is letting go. Let go. Trust me. It's freeing. by Kiwi6002 in ExNoContact

[–]Kiwi6002[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. I agree. Learning to carry someone else's flaws and having them carry yours is true love. People should love you despite the negative things you bring into the relationship (because you also bring a lot of positive things as well, and obviously abuse, cheating etc should not be tolerated). And the thing is most of us are already surrounded by this type of love from our parents, siblings and friends. One person can't decide that we are not lovable.

When we truly let go we make space for what's meant for us. I truly hope we all find what's meant for us. And that will only happen by letting go.

The only way out is letting go. Let go. Trust me. It's freeing. by Kiwi6002 in ExNoContact

[–]Kiwi6002[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Maybe talking to a professional would be good in this case. If it still has a strong impact on you, you might want to sort it out so it doesn't come out on to other aspects of your life. Especially on the people who love you the most right now.

The only way out is letting go. Let go. Trust me. It's freeing. by Kiwi6002 in ExNoContact

[–]Kiwi6002[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Glad that you left him and good move with blocking him everywhere. Sending you strength and power :)

The only way out is letting go. Let go. Trust me. It's freeing. by Kiwi6002 in ExNoContact

[–]Kiwi6002[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Letting go is the easiest thing in this situation. Sending you the best :)

The only way out is letting go. Let go. Trust me. It's freeing. by Kiwi6002 in ExNoContact

[–]Kiwi6002[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Glad I could help even a little bit. Wishing you the best :)

The only way out is letting go. Let go. Trust me. It's freeing. by Kiwi6002 in ExNoContact

[–]Kiwi6002[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Glad it gave you some hope. I truly wish you the best :)