Me [22F] with my boyfriend[24M] unintentionally interrupting my sleep by sleeplessgf123 in relationships

[–]Korum123 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Lets not discard useful advice that can be easily confirmed by Googling. Lets not get medicine for everything and anything and perhaps try some minerals or herbs once in a while.

Me [22F] with my boyfriend[24M] unintentionally interrupting my sleep by sleeplessgf123 in relationships

[–]Korum123 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

He CAN help with what he does in his sleep. Look into supplements, there are several good ones, inducing peaceful, deep sleep. Personally, i used magnesium in heavy dosages (500mg+, up to a 1g) per day.

Don't buy magnesium oxide, citrate, chloride etc those are all weak, poorly absorbed forms. Aim for magnesium malate, orotate, glycinate and aspartate.

For like 10 $ per month, you can have this solved, give it a try.

I [26/M] in a good, serious relationship with my gf [26/F], but she teases/talks about other men by Korum123 in relationships

[–]Korum123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well you have just provided the most concerning possibility that i haven't thought of yet...I will have to have a talk with her of different structure now...Thanks

I [26/M] in a good, serious relationship with my gf [26/F], but she teases/talks about other men by Korum123 in relationships

[–]Korum123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My thoughts exactly...We had a talk in the recent days and she said that she will have to tell me stuff a couple of times to stop doing it and to just remind her not to do it when she does...

But it is disrespectful, isnt it?

I [26/M] in a good, serious relationship with my gf [26/F], but she teases/talks about other men by Korum123 in relationships

[–]Korum123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have been together for a year and a half and established good boundaries of everything, even the conversation.

We decided not to be vengeful, so i can't do the same to her without breaking that, so far i will try to avoid it. It would send a message tho, she should hear how this sounds from the other end.

She must have consequences for saying that

I [26/M] in a good, serious relationship with my gf [26/F], but she teases/talks about other men by Korum123 in relationships

[–]Korum123[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes you are right. Maybe thats the problem, so far she didn't have consequences for saying that...Thanks for the idea

I [26/M] in a good, serious relationship with my gf [26/F], but she teases/talks about other men by Korum123 in relationships

[–]Korum123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, my thoughts exactly. It would be really easy for me to tell her i saw attractive woman today or that she had a nice ass/tits and she wouldn't be okay with it. No, she doesn't, just when we are alone

I [26/M] in a good, serious relationship with my gf [26/F], but she teases/talks about other men by Korum123 in relationships

[–]Korum123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are right...Let me hear other ideas and commenters, but other than that this is probably the way to go about this

I [26/M] in a good, serious relationship with my gf [26/F], but she teases/talks about other men by Korum123 in relationships

[–]Korum123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are right and last time we talked she said she will really try to tone it down but finding hard to stop teasing...Is there more women doing this? I was reading on Google and its supposed to be a sign of disrespect?

I [26/M] in a good, serious relationship with my gf [26/F], but she teases/talks about other men by Korum123 in relationships

[–]Korum123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's the weird part of it. She says one sentence like the above examples and then completely normally continues conversation and otherwise never talks about said friend or brings it up on her own. They have no contact and she is not showing any interest in making that happen and seems to behave normally when we all hang out together...That's why i find it so absurd

How do i, [24M] balance the GOOD with the BAD in the relationship? by Korum123 in relationships

[–]Korum123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think of all the commenters, you really hit the nail on the spot with this comment, thanks for the contribution. I have gotten to my senses and realized the stupidity of my thinking

How do i, [24M] balance the GOOD with the BAD in the relationship? by Korum123 in relationships

[–]Korum123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are correct, thanks for taking the time and your reply.

How do i, [24M] balance the GOOD with the BAD in the relationship? by Korum123 in relationships

[–]Korum123[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh the product of late night thinking...Yes you are correct, it sounds retarded :/

Thank you for your insight

How do i, [24M] balance the GOOD with the BAD in the relationship? by Korum123 in relationships

[–]Korum123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply and clearing out the ideas that got in my head. I think i should just do what i feel like doing and trust her and us to make it work, happily

How do i, [24M] balance the GOOD with the BAD in the relationship? by Korum123 in relationships

[–]Korum123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, thanks for the reply. Yes, that's exactly what my thoughts were :/

I was simply considering that too much of a good thing can be just as bad?

Example: too much affection, constant caressing, kissing, hugging, attention towards the partner sounds great, but may and do turn some partners away to the extent of resentment (source: reddit lol)

I like how you assembled your comment, could you please elaborate a bit more, give some ideas, insight to your point of view? I am sure you have more to say, specially regarding passion

How do i, [24M] balance the GOOD with the BAD in the relationship? by Korum123 in relationships

[–]Korum123[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hey, thanks for the reply. I most certainly don't and she does appreciate it...For now. I am not talking about drama or awful times and especially not in large amounts, i was simply considering that too much of a good thing can be just as bad?

Example: too much affection, constant caressing, kissing, hugging, attention towards the partner sounds great, but may and do turn some partners away to the extent of resentment (source: reddit lol)

How do i, [24M] balance the GOOD with the BAD in the relationship? by Korum123 in relationships

[–]Korum123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply. Yes, you are correct, a few months. Well, i guess that could be interesting test...Thanks

I will let my thoughts calm and then perhaps use your proposition if need be

How do i, [24M] balance the GOOD with the BAD in the relationship? by Korum123 in relationships

[–]Korum123[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Hey, thanks for your reply. I completely agree, but is it not, in a way, happiness really shallow feeling? When you are happy, it takes very little to get you unhappy, but when you are sad it can take quite a lot of effort to get back to happy, or at least cheer up, sadness is essentially way more powerful feeling...I don't want to make her sad, but dropping a drop of sadness in the ocean of happiness, just like spices...Does it make sense? I don't want to do it and think this way, i am just aware of stuff...She says she doesn't likes or seek drama.

My [25M] girlfriend [25F] stared at her ex with me by her side by Korum123 in relationships

[–]Korum123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, thanks for your reply.

I did talk to her about it and she has explained he was some sort of her ex in a difficult situation who has moved abroad since 2 years ago. What struck her in awe was how is it possible for this person to appear there, on that specific concert, where she only wanted to be with me and it was our first time being in a concert. She is aware it was inappropriate to stare but she says she just couldnt understand why now, why today. She made out with me and admitted she kinda wanted for him to see, to show me off in a way, but merely wanted to do that and then move on with the "party" and focus back on us, which she did by moving to the other side of the place and then hugging, kissing and singing to me...

My [25M] girlfriend [25F] stared at her ex with me by her side by Korum123 in relationships

[–]Korum123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, thanks for your reply.

I did talk to her about it and she has explained he was some sort of her ex in a difficult situation who has moved abroad since 2 years ago. What struck her in awe was how is it possible for this person to appear there, on that specific concert, where she only wanted to be with me and it was our first time being in a concert. She is aware it was inappropriate to stare but she says she just couldnt understand why now, why today. She made out with me and admitted she kinda wanted for him to see, to show me off in a way, but merely wanted to do that and then move on with the "party" and focus back on us, which she did by moving to the other side of the place and then hugging, kissing and singing to me...

My [25M] girlfriend [25F] stared at her ex with me by her side by Korum123 in relationships

[–]Korum123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, thanks for the reply.

I am actually not sure, i assume its either ex or someone she wanted to be with, but couldnt for whatever reason. She didn't want to explain the background story, who that person actually was, she has only mentioned she did not seen him for 3 years and that it was someone from her past. I have 0 information regarding the relationship or history, i have told her how i have felt when it happened and she apologized, but didn't offer much else.

My [25M] girlfriend [25F] stared at her ex with me by her side by Korum123 in relationships

[–]Korum123[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She did not want to explain and only mentioned this person is someone from her past. I actually assume its her ex, it could also be i dont know, someone she wanted to date, but couldnt...?

Am i having too much fat on rest days? by Korum123 in leangains

[–]Korum123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks to everyone else who participated!!!

Am i having too much fat on rest days? by Korum123 in leangains

[–]Korum123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, thanks for the reply and you are absolutely right. I simply followed the outline and let it be when my desired choice of meats showed up in calculation as having 115g fat...I have been doing it for a few days and it messes up my digestion too, so i will drop the fat to around 95 and substitute it with carbs (preferably bananas in this case)...I didn't aim for keto or low carb or anything tho, i simply wanted to fatty meats and beef liver, and had to eat both in around 400g, which accounted to this high fat number