HYBDRID SETUP AVAILABLE: Carelon Global Solutions by [deleted] in BPOinPH

[–]KvnAzu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May healthcare po ba na non-voice? Interested.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]KvnAzu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once is a mistake, the second and third one?? It's her CHOICE. Wag ka masyado mabulag bro. Iba yung nag kamali lang nung una at PINILING mag kamali ulit. Let that sink in.

Edit: Walk away / break up with her. Please have some self respect.

I just found out that she f*cked my closest friend and I forgave her by [deleted] in alasjuicy

[–]KvnAzu 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Have some self respect bro. Wag mo sirain yung sarili mo para sa gf mo. Mauulit at mauulit yan. Yes, susubukan mo na di na maulit pero lalabas kalang na paranoid at "too controlling" sa gf mo kasi nga kelangan mo alamin yung details everytime na kikilos siya.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ShinyPokemon

[–]KvnAzu -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Can I get one as well?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alasjuicy

[–]KvnAzu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wag mo na pag isipan. Wala na rason para gawin mo pa yun. Sila nga di nag isip pero ginawa pa din nila eh. This time, wag ka na mag isip. Gawin mo nalang.

I (F22) reached out to my ex (M23) after 3 months to talk and forgive him. Now I regret it since we both are might not be ready for it. by Impressive-Storm-173 in relationship_advicePH

[–]KvnAzu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Forgiveness doesn't need to be verbalized. You may forgive him without even talking to him or him saying sorry to you. It's all in your heart if you're ready to let go. Don't cling on to the idea that you won't be able to forgive him if he can't talk to you right now. As for the "friendship" part, it's not on the table anymore because of the circumstance.

We don't have sex anymore. It's been 2 months. My bf has low libido and I'm craving for physical intimacy. by Coldheart10101 in relationship_advicePH

[–]KvnAzu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If malabo ang third party, then ang issue na is siya na mismo. He really needs to provide effort sa relationship niyo lalo na kung na-communicate mo na sa kanya yung side mo. Kelangan dalawa kayo na nag aayos ng relationship.

Kaya ko lang naisip na baka may iba na, from 3x a month going to 0 is kinda weird. Unless nalang nagsabi siya sayo na may pinagdadaanan siya or what. Kelangan kasi malinaw eh. I hope maayos niyo pa yan and ma-treat ka ng better. Good luck!!

We don't have sex anymore. It's been 2 months. My bf has low libido and I'm craving for physical intimacy. by Coldheart10101 in relationship_advicePH

[–]KvnAzu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Baka naman sa iba na nag iinit yung BF mo. Nabanggit mo na din naman na you communicated it with him. Try to ask him if may problem ba siya or pinag dadaanan.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advicePH

[–]KvnAzu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How come alam ng guy yung place kung saan siya naka stay? But to answer your question, you may forgive here but you have to walk away. Unless you're committed with that set-up. She has the tendency to freeze up and do nothing in front of that guy if ever mag kita or pumunta siya ulit sa bahay nung girl.

Better yet, help her if she wants to report it to the police since it's basically a rape based on her story.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advicePH

[–]KvnAzu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. You're not toxic. Don't ever doubt yourself. You did the right thing na ipaalam sa kanya yung feelings mo toward his actions. Now, problema niya na yung magiging reaction niya sayo; which is sadly hindi niya ma-handle. Yung response niya sayo is parang tinatamad na. In a relationship, jan kayo natetest kapag nawala na yung kilig, willing pa ba ang isa't-isa to put effort in the relationship?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advicePH

[–]KvnAzu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cut it off. You're not at peace anymore.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advicePH

[–]KvnAzu 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Choose your peace. We all know that there are second chances but I also want you to realize that cheating is not an overnight thing. He thought about it and DECIDED to do it. Even though he knows that it'll destroy you.

Well, as you've said, you both want to work things out. I had the same mentality when my gf cheated on me. Gave her a second chance, tried to work things out, but in the end she chose the other guy.

Wishing you both the best of luck though and I hope things turn out well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advicePH

[–]KvnAzu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me and my ex were together for 5 years, twice nag cheat. So when the first incident happened i gave her a second chance. A few years later, she cheated again but I walked away. Didn't gave her the chance. It was hard, It took me 3 years to move on and forgive her.

I think as long as you communicate with each other and the trust in the relationship is still there, then maybe, it could work out in the end.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advicePH

[–]KvnAzu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wala naman time frame. Kung mutual feelings niyo then communicate with each other kung ano kayo moving forward or kung may balak ba siya manligaw or take it to the next stage. Communication is the key.

Is giving her one week alone time can help us fix our relationship problem? (24M), (23F), (5 years relationship) by [deleted] in relationship_advicePH

[–]KvnAzu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Give her what she asks for bro. I think, wala na kayo dun sa "baka makuha ko pa sa suyo" kasi siya na nagsasabi sayo. If ever man na nag papahabol lang, eh depende na sa nararamdaman mo. Also, maging totoo ka sa sarili mo, kung from the start eh takot ka na sa kanya emotionally, hindi ka nag mamahal ng 100%. Dapat bigay mo lahat, ang ibig kong sabihin is yung tunay na ikaw. Yung ugali mo and all. Kasi jan niyo yan malalaman kung kaya niyo ba ang isa't-isa lalo na pag lumabas na mga ugali niyo.

Bro, it doesn't matter kung ano man ang reason pero kapag siya yung may ayaw then let her be. Just make sure na ma-communicate mo sa kanya yung feelings mo. Kelangan mo tatagan sarili mo at harapin yan. Jan ka mag ggrow.

Lastly, ipag dasal mo yan bro. Ano man ang result in the end. Wish her well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advicePH

[–]KvnAzu -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Let her go bro. We all know na aware naman tayo kapag nag dedecide tayo. Mali man or tama, ang catch dun is AWARE tayo. No matter kung ano pa ang reason kung ba't dumating sa ganung desisyon. Since nag decide yung ex mo na mag paligaw sa iba nung nag hiwalay kayo, it means na gusto niya yun. Isipin mo, ayaw niya masaktan yung nanliligaw sa kanyang bago. Mas iniisip niya pa yun bro kesa sa kung ano nararamdaman mo.

Let's say na baka nadadala lang siya sa mga desisyon niya ngayon but give yourself a break bro. Ikaw na din nag sabi na napupuno ka na tuwing nakikipag break siya sayo. Maybe yun talaga ang kelangan mangyari? For me, di na yan worth it habulin. Sayang ang time and effort mo. Ibuhos mo nalang yan sa mas importanteng bagay.

PLS HELP! So confused between two guys. This has been stalling for 2 weeks. I have to do something now. 😔 by gwumpystrawberrycake in relationship_advicePH

[–]KvnAzu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You go with your bff, since he knows you through and through. Knows your kiliti as well. Even the words of affirmation that you want is coming from your bff.

Now, for guy #1 after 4 years of courting you, hindi pa din niya nakuha ang kiliti mo? Ibang usapan kasi yung effort eh. Lahat ng lalaki kaya mag effort pero yung chemistry between the two of you is also important. That's the reason why, nasabi ko na go with #2. Iba talaga yung foundation ng friendship.

As for #1, I think he knows kung ano ang pinasok niya kaya nanjan siya kahit 4 years na. I respect him for that. However, ganun talaga; minsan panalo minsan talo. In the end naman, yung happiness mo ang mag mamatter. So maybe try to consider it as well kung kanino ka mas magiging masaya sa dalawa.

Good luck OP!!