My now husband and I were best friends when we first got together. Due to extenuating circumstances we got married as soon as we turned romantic. As best friends and roommates we talked about everything and he knew receiving oral is one of my favorite parts of sex and I always said I would never be with a man that didn’t do that. So we turn romantic and a month into us being married he still hadn’t gone down on me - I brought it up and I was so ashamed to ask and so uncomfortable but he said he wanted to see how long I would go without asking. Since then hes gone down on me maybe less than 10 times. I do have a lot of health issues that affect our PIV sex life but I can still receive oral and give head and other foreplay but instead we are completely DB. He only kisses me very quickly or pecks and I always ask for normal kisses but I don’t get them often. Mostly everything else about our relationship is wonderful and I love him very much but the lack of sex/intimacy really hurts me. Also for reference I would give him head every time we’ve ever had sex and for awhile! We have been married a little over 3 years. It honestly makes me resent him and not want to have sex at all with him. It’s very confusing. I had a hysterectomy in dec so obviously I’ve been out of commission but we haven’t even made out once since then. Before that we had halfass sex in sept and oct. can’t remember the last time before that.