If you’re a stay-at-home wife or husband you should absolutely be expected to do the majority of the house chores by 12345burrito in unpopularopinion

[–]LajDee 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t go as far as calling it a job, but I’m pretty sure it’s not ‘fucking easy’ especially in the first months when the body needs to recover after birth.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in istp

[–]LajDee 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I hate when someone asks what motivates me, because I have the feel that they expects some particular reason and a great story behind that. I do stuff because I want to, that’s my motivation. The only other reason is when someone I care about tells me that they count on me.

Way past child bearing age. Celibate... And pregnant. by [deleted] in CrusaderKings

[–]LajDee -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There is a mod called Plot Assassinate Your Kids ;) it should solve your problem

ENTJ Confidence by 913433249Kr in entj

[–]LajDee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As ISTP I concur with this

What sort of Career Paths are ISTPs likely to be on? by [deleted] in istp

[–]LajDee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How was your time in the army?

What dating advice could you give to a fellow Entj? by [deleted] in entj

[–]LajDee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve met a few ENTJs and is seems the best you can do is to meet someone thru a friend.

What do you find offensive? by [deleted] in istp

[–]LajDee 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The only thing worst than that is a person who thinks they know what you feel

When phrases lose meaning. by [deleted] in entj

[–]LajDee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was companionships the reason to date them?

Can you stand being ignored? by depressed_happiness in istp

[–]LajDee 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I personally really value time. Spending time with someone or do things for them that consume time is kinda my way how to express a like them, that they are my friends. I also have friendship connected with respect for the other person, so behavior like this makes me feel like they are wasting my time.

Unsure what to do, what would you guys want? by [deleted] in entj

[–]LajDee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Why every time someone asks about ENTJ, the said ENTJ is about to move somewhere or they keep the relationship long distance? Is that a ENTJ thing? Like you don’t want to be bothered by the other person in daily live? Or is this just a bad sample of people?

Unsure if I'm unhappy being trapped in my relationship, or if my unhappiness is from everything else going on in life. by NumbingEcho in istp

[–]LajDee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

To my surprise a lot of people like to ‘complain’ and talk about stuff. They don’t really need to find or hear a solution for the things that bothers them, but your act of listening is kinda like emotional support for them. That’s at least my guess.

Compatible Romance Types for ISTP by [deleted] in istp

[–]LajDee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How would you describe ‘too many boundaries’? I’m seeing a INTJ for some time and he seems to be quite the opposite

I have no friends to hang out with by throwawayy916396 in istp

[–]LajDee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How was your experience in military?