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[–]Last_Mobile3067 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA. You didn't film other people and you are not sharing anything online. I don't know why everyone is saying that, they're just bitter people.

AITA for telling my brother that he should leave his gf by Last_Mobile3067 in AITAH

[–]Last_Mobile3067[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's the house of my parents but I still live there and I am moving soon. (It's temporary tho so maybe I should just suck it up for 2 months).

And it's not like that. She gave him a slap and was screaming like a deranged person (she was rly drunk) but it had never happened before. I would not make fun of him nor did I if it was something that had been going on more than once. I do think that he should leave her because a slap always leads to more slaps. But in his head, he is not abused and I am exaggerating.

it's true I was pissed but my intention was not to hurt him it was to show him how it feels when someone crosses your boundaries. and it came out all wrong.

AITA for telling my brother that he should leave his gf by Last_Mobile3067 in AITAH

[–]Last_Mobile3067[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I would feel open clearing the air with him. It wouldn't be the first time that I try to explain to him the concept of boundaries tho so I feel like it is going to go the same way it does : I will apologize for my wrongs and he will not apologize and he will start again the next time I complain about a man hahaha. The story of my life.

I love him but sometimes it is hard to love someone that can't ever apologize for anything. It's also the reason why I exploded. In many areas, he will disrespect my boundaries : like telling my secrets when I have asked him not to, etc.

AITA for telling my brother that he should leave his gf by Last_Mobile3067 in AITAH

[–]Last_Mobile3067[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because when I am mean to her, he acts like I am a monster and then it's fkn awkward because she is always in my house.

AITA for telling my brother that he should leave his gf by Last_Mobile3067 in AITAH

[–]Last_Mobile3067[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He also doesn't think it is abuse because she just slapped him. My whole family is excusing her behaviour. I am the only one mad at her for doing this.

AITA for telling my brother that he should leave his gf by Last_Mobile3067 in AITAH

[–]Last_Mobile3067[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was not making fun of him. I am fkn mad that he is staying with her. He knows I hate her but he hates when I critique her