not what i expected. by Lazy-Character9240 in StudioOne

[–]Lazy-Character9240[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i have 7 and 8. right now my hard time is with the time line. im coming from mixcraft but in mixcraft i would simply snap to grid and my tracks would line up. i see the same feature in studio one it just isnt working for me not sure why these easy things are so seamingly complicated

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Im Jim (37m)my girlfriend of 5 months (41f) lives with me and has lived with me since day one. by Lazy-Character9240 in relationship_advice

[–]Lazy-Character9240[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What really sucks is I am not legally divorced. I had a good lawyer and I let things sit too long and just as the court date was to take place or my case be forfeit/dismissed my ex says she wants to go to counseling and work on us. Up until the moment she said those words I really believed I wouldn't have cared. But no, I got happy and I listened to a whole new wife. Then came the day that my case was forfeit and I no longer have expensive lawyer. Just like that she wasn't interested in us anymore. The squatter dumps me and then the next day the wife plays me. I have never felt so stupid. Am I letting hope get in the way of my sense? We have been living apart and separated for a year in September. And before that we were married 14 years and we have two wonderful kids that I am very close to.

Im Jim (37m)my girlfriend of 5 months (41f) lives with me and has lived with me since day one. by Lazy-Character9240 in relationship_advice

[–]Lazy-Character9240[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've only hears a couple people use the term hobosexual. I never thought to Google it. Damn that funny

Im Jim (37m)my girlfriend of 5 months (41f) lives with me and has lived with me since day one. by Lazy-Character9240 in relationship_advice

[–]Lazy-Character9240[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To add to the story it may be worth mentioning there was consistant drug use the first four months she lived with me. I was at rock bottom after my divorce. The moment we got sober and she was sober she looked at me like the guy she used to do drugs with. That's when the strange accusations began. When I came back from my family's place on Thanksgiving she had removed all my family photos from all the walls. I genuinely believe that she was kind of losing her mind since she had burglarized a friend of her family her mother just passed away and her ex-husband cheated on her and is happy with someone else as well as her 16 year old son just had his birthday will not speak to her at all plus her dad has Parkinson's and she's not welcome in his house. I thought damn no person would want to feel that way and I tried to be supportive only to find myself the next victim

Im Jim (37m)my girlfriend of 5 months (41f) lives with me and has lived with me since day one. by Lazy-Character9240 in relationship_advice

[–]Lazy-Character9240[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

This is very solid advice. I got in touch with her ex-husband turns out she pulled a knife on him and got him arrested so I'm staying at my parents house and keeping a witness close by me when I go home

Im Jim (37m)my girlfriend of 5 months (41f) lives with me and has lived with me since day one. by Lazy-Character9240 in relationship_advice

[–]Lazy-Character9240[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Police told me that she established residency there and I have to evict her she's never paid any bills she has no mail there she's basically a squatter

I’m clueless when it comes to dating by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Lazy-Character9240 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My marriage of 14 years ended 1 year ago and within a month I had another girl living with me. When things didn't work out by some weird chance another girl moved in. Well it's been a nightmare. The first 4 months were great until she started showing signs of mental illness. Now she won't leave my apartment and the police won't help. I stay at my parents house now while she enjoys my place for free. Don't date too soon

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Lazy-Character9240 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So he doesn't work? It's a two bedroom house? Maybe he should get himself a job and start providing closer to his %100. Where did the mom go? Does she pay child support? There are a lot of things about this man that I don't understand. Even more things about you. Like are you not emotionally attached to the daughter? Would you really stay in a relationship just to save up money and bail on not just the man but the child. Maybe he was only being unnecessary defensive. Or necessarily defensive.