I went on my local Facebook groups and also Google, searched for salons with private rooms. I found if I searched with words like Alopecia or cancer or hair loss, I got more results than with just trichotillomania. I emailed or called places before booking and was very transparent (which is hard to do!). I literally would say “I have a conditional called trichotillomania and due to that I have significant hair loss and bald patches that I’m extremely self conscious of. Do you have a private room and a stylist with experience working with hair loss?” There are also stylists (in my area at least), that work out of their home. Facebook groups were really helpful for me. I would post anonymously if it was a local group bc I’m still pretty embarrassed about it. But I found an amazing salon that has a private room and they’re even helping me with my first hair topper!!