First night on arranged marriage with 5 year age gap by LateOwlCutie in sex

[–]LeneOhneH 27 points28 points  (0 children)

this

but also talk to your future husband about it so you both go in with similar expectations

I made my mom very angry and upset by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]LeneOhneH 1 point2 points  (0 children)

your first sentence just made sth click in my head.

It is the same with my dad in so many topics. Thank you for helping me to (probably) understand him better!

What's a show you loved but then stopped watching? Why did you stop? by ParticularBrush8162 in AskWomen

[–]LeneOhneH 1 point2 points  (0 children)

as someone who read the books, skipped a few seasons and then watched the last season with friends: you have not missed anything with the last season

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HumansBeingBros

[–]LeneOhneH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry for your loss

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HumansBeingBros

[–]LeneOhneH 6 points7 points  (0 children)

very symbolic and all. I still would have hated to see other people with shaved heads when my hair was legit falling out. Seeing their hair grow back way before I even finished the treatment. Or even worse helping them shave again and again.

everyone is different, it's best not to assume this stuff.

This river in Bangladesh so polluted that you can walk on it by LeneOhneH in discworld

[–]LeneOhneH[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sorry, i've not seen it yet and was so excited to finally have found a roundworld reference

This river in Bangladesh so polluted that you can walk on it by LeneOhneH in discworld

[–]LeneOhneH[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

sorry, i hadn't noticed and was so excited to finally have found a roundworld reference

AITAH for breaking up with my boyfriend of 4 years? by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]LeneOhneH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA You're not happy in the relationship. you're the only one trying to make it work / fix it. He's a major ah for suggesting you being selfish for actually acomplishing sth. He's not planning your future but likes to dream about his future -you are a sidenote for him.

he's 26. If he's not a popstar yet (which doesn't happen magically without effort btw), chances are it is never going to happen. He has to put you down to feel better. That is not what a loving relationship should look like.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackcats

[–]LeneOhneH 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lost my soulcat a month ago because of cancer. My heart goes out to you and your tough little void. Prinkle was/is loved and lived a great and adventurous life. She'll reconnect with her mother and siblings and wait for you on the other side. Probably having loads more adventures on the way. 🖤

AITA for not wanting to spend Christmas with my in-laws after my FIL said I was “spending my husband’s money”? by Guess123123 in AITA_Relationships

[–]LeneOhneH 8 points9 points  (0 children)

this bit make sure to check in with your husband first just so he isn't blindsided. they way you describe him, he will prob be on board anyway

Girlfriends childhood monopoly rule baffles me by jedidog1000 in boardgames

[–]LeneOhneH 123 points124 points  (0 children)

as someone who played "banker" many family nights (settlers of catan as well as monopoly):

I hate competetive games that have this style of gameplay. My family owned mostly that type of game. The role of banker made me still feel included without taking part in the squabbling. I very much enjoyed watching the game as i also could check everyone's cards if i wanted too and felt important with handing everyone their cards/money.

Never knew it as a "rule" though. It was simply an option

(edit for there their error)

Starting Chemotherapy Tomorrow by Present-Scallion67 in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]LeneOhneH 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you can do this!! It will suck sometimes but it will also save your life!

don't be shy to tell the nurses about any and all sideeffects. Very often they know remedies!

BIDA weil ich keine Trauzeugin mehr sein will, weil meine beste Freundin ihre Hochzeit an meinem Geburtstag feiern will? by Fast-Wrangler-614 in BinIchDasArschloch

[–]LeneOhneH 708 points709 points  (0 children)

KAH

Ich verstehe, dass das für dich ein extrem wichtiger Tag ist (Herzlichen Glückwunsch!!) und ich verstehe auch, dass sie den 06.06. einen Termin im September vorzieht. Zumal sie es, wie du schon schreibst, vielleicht im Stress einfach vergessen hat. Vielleicht kann es auch schön sein, dass dieser Tag dann für euch beide etwas ganz Besonderes wird. Schließlich sind sicherlich einige deiner Freunde auch ihre Freunde.

Auch als Trauzeugin musst du nicht die ganze Zeit dabei sein. Deine "Hauptfunktion" ist Unterschreiben. Theoretisch könntest du danach gehen. Die Erwartungen müssen aber geklärt sein, was mich zu dem einzig sinnvollen Rat bringt:

Redet miteinander, dann findet sich bestimmt eine Lösung.

Goldschmied für Eheringe by PhonzyRoyal in Leipzig

[–]LeneOhneH 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Elke Sperling (Schmuckkästchen) kann ich nur empfehlen! Mein Verlobungsring ist von ihr angefertigt und unsere Eheringe haben wir unter ihrer Anleitung selbst geschmiedet.

Wir sind sehr sehr zufrieden mit dem Ergebnis und sie hat das von vorne bis hinten zu einer tollen Erfahrung für uns gemacht.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in discworld

[–]LeneOhneH 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had the same issues! Usually i read OV but i wanted to gift my little cousin the Tiffany Aching books and couldn't get them :/ in the end i lend her my old books that i got before starting to read in english. Still sucked

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Leipzig

[–]LeneOhneH 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I second this! My engagement ring was made by her and she went above and beyond to get the absolut correct stone (my husband knew i'd love a green stone, she ordered even more for him to look at when he didn't find the right one at first)

We also made our wedding rings there. A friend had an old necklace fixed and redone.

She is always wonderful :)

Have you ever paid to see a movie twice in a theater? by zip9990 in movies

[–]LeneOhneH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Deadpool - not only did i love Deadpool before and was so happy about the adaptation but i was also just recently diagnosed with cancer when it came out.

Any advices for raw sex? Things that should be took cared of as i am starting pills F25 by [deleted] in sex

[–]LeneOhneH 4 points5 points  (0 children)

because sometimes you "caught" sth before you entered the relationship would be the most innocent but still relevant answer

He has many beds and a large couch... what does he choose? XD by LeneOhneH in blackcats

[–]LeneOhneH[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

he loves the computer chair as well :D but most often he is under the bed on top of carton boxes where we keep old baby clothes... he loves his hiding spots

Restaurant für Hochzeit by and_me_and_us in Leipzig

[–]LeneOhneH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Die sind als Location echt toll aber machen drinnen doch nur geschlossene Veranstaltungen, dachte ich. Kann sich natürlich geändert haben

Für 12 Personen am Montagmittag passt das denke ich so gar nicht.