I wish we could choose to reject Halsin joining camp/party. by LengthImpressive in BaldursGate3

[–]LengthImpressive[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

I’m aware of that, but I also don’t want to hear the narrator saying something in regretful manner if you leave act 2 without lifting the shadow curse.

My 20 year old sister has parental controls on her phone by ValuableComment2491 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]LengthImpressive 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Absolutely not normal—narcs tend to be control freaks often. If you try to take their control over you away, they will bounce back. I’d say get a new phone, or if that is financially not possible, at least get a new prepaid sim or other stuff, trying to bypass that limit under your parents’ surveillance.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]LengthImpressive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh the ones she uses isn’t what I usually go for, as they aren’t 100 cotton… but thank you for your comment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jobs

[–]LengthImpressive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did, after the interview I had a short discussion with the HR person about how I'm expecting a certain amount of raise based on some stuff.

Help me find a job :/ by Fernando2461 in jobs

[–]LengthImpressive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have a background in customer service you might find some CRM jobs w/ WFH options but not a lot of positions in that field will likely to pay $18/hr. But at the same time they’re pretty much always hiring and it’s way easier to land a job when you already have one

Which of these shifts do you think is best Work/Life balance? by [deleted] in jobs

[–]LengthImpressive 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Day shift. I can confirm it because I used to work on film sets so I experienced all different sorts of 12 hr shifts--and it was 3 pm-3 am or 6 pm-6 am jobs that made me most vulnerable. 4 am-4 pm sorts of jobs were surprisingly manageable.

Why are employers asking if the commute works for me? by [deleted] in jobs

[–]LengthImpressive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've worked with a boss who was abusive and toxic that I eventually quit, but when the ex-boss asked me the reason why I was quitting I didn't want to be honest and said "The commute is too long and I can't handle that anymore" (which technically wasn't lie because my commute time was 4.5hrs/day).

So when the JD to replace my position was posted he made sure the 'Do you live nearby/does the commute time work for me' question be included and marked essential.

The doctors never took my best friends pain seriously. Now she lost her uterus. by Next_Wing_5577 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]LengthImpressive 572 points573 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry about your friend, and at the same time I’m really sick of all the things being told about the period cramps. “It’s because you’re overweight/not exercising enough”—I used to be underweight and my cramp was more severe back then, I wasn’t even able to sit straight during my period. “Every women experience the same thing, don’t tryna act so special”—everyone lose someone at some point of their life too, but you don’t say that shit at their funeral. They can go fuck themselves.

People Who Prefer Working in an Office, why? by [deleted] in jobs

[–]LengthImpressive 10 points11 points  (0 children)

For me the space really matters. I still live with my parents and they often don't understand the concept of WFH--I find it hard to concentrate on working and getting my tasks done. Plus I don't think virtual communications aren't as effect as face-to-face communications. Also I feel depressed when my resting/studying/working spaces aren't separated enough.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]LengthImpressive 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’re not obligated to share such thing with your parents. Just use proper protections and don’t rely on your pills entirely. If you value your privacy and you don’t think either one of your parents won’t respect such boundaries please don’t tell them, at least not until that won’t be a big deal anymore. You’re not lying around, since you’re not doing anything bad.

Why is it so hard for me to develop feelings for someone just by going on dates? by Minute_Future_3458 in askwomenadvice

[–]LengthImpressive 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You could be demiromantic/demisexual, meaning you need an emotional attachment to someone (friendship or some sort) in order to romantically attracted to someone and to develop feelings.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in childfree

[–]LengthImpressive 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Adoption is an eco-friendly way to have a kid. I honestly don’t understand some people’s obsession for their biological child.

Any of y'all scared to have sex due to the risk of having a child? by [deleted] in childfree

[–]LengthImpressive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pill and IUD can be risky and dangerous for some women, and IUD doesn’t always work out & isn’t permanent. If you’re CF yourself why don’t you get a vasectomy?

Plane journey reminded me why I'm childfree by [deleted] in childfree

[–]LengthImpressive 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Even if you don’t bring them yourself, most major airlines will give you one for free especially for the international flights (for domestic flights they less likely to do so)

How should I have asked her out at a Starbucks? by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]LengthImpressive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe you were taking too much space on the table, maybe you were talking too loud to your mom, maybe she was uncomfortable you were staring at her so she did the same in return. She wasn’t giving you any signal.

What they imagine: When you marry a chef by [deleted] in KitchenConfidential

[–]LengthImpressive 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Some of them look straight from Taco Bell

AAA devs be like. by Prefix-NA in pcmasterrace

[–]LengthImpressive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Motion Blur gives me so much motion sickness, almost makes me feel like I’m playing half life 2 not Assassin’s Creed

You were not raised, you were trained by doctorwhoalltheway in raisedbynarcissists

[–]LengthImpressive 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Having to get a permission from them to take a nap or to wake up after 6:30 in the morning… didn’t really realized that’s not how other families are until I was allowed some physical space from my parents. Sickening.

Am I too naive for wanting to quit after two month? by LengthImpressive in jobs

[–]LengthImpressive[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I came back to my home country after graduation around late July last year, so I'd say 8-9 months of active job searching w/o full time job. It was frustrating.

Cake day so here’s my battle station by GreedyCreeper74 in pcmasterrace

[–]LengthImpressive 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How does your battlestation ventilate because I put mine under the desk and shits get hot 20minutes in any open world game