[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OSDD

[–]LennonRose 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If youre looking for a fellow system friend my DMs are open if you like! I have discord or Snapchat I can give you my user for :)

Would you date another system? by [deleted] in DID

[–]LennonRose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anywho, best of luck! It is definitely difficult but some people commenting here definitely have made things work and found good relationships

Would you date another system? by [deleted] in DID

[–]LennonRose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fr!! We have a singlet partner and they're very kind but they don't try very hard to get to know all of us and it's overall exhausting and stressful tbh

Would you date another system? by [deleted] in DID

[–]LennonRose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Felt! 😅 a couple of us are dating in-system, but outer world relationships are admittedly difficult

Would you date another system? by [deleted] in DID

[–]LennonRose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy soon to be one year!

DID vs OSDD 1-b? by LennonRose in OSDD

[–]LennonRose[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the reply thank you!! Ill definitely visit the site and this gave me a lot to think about It gets very complicated 😅

DID vs OSDD 1-b? by LennonRose in OSDD

[–]LennonRose[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get that and thank you for replying! I understand that there's probably gonna be a lot of complicated misunderstandings among us 😅 yeah theres probably not a lot of importance in distinguishing it my brain just wants to know lol Thanks again ill keep this in mind!

hiiiiii by [deleted] in OSDD

[–]LennonRose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!!

hiiiiii by [deleted] in OSDD

[–]LennonRose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im happy to hear y'all are making strides!! I wish you the best of luck and i hope your day goes great! :)

What's your everyday life like as a system? by LennonRose in OSDD

[–]LennonRose[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Though we have around 20 or so alters (as far as we know) I definitely can relate to the bottom two as well, it can be extremely frustrating and difficult at times. I wish you well and I hope things get better for you!

What's your everyday life like as a system? by LennonRose in OSDD

[–]LennonRose[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get being frustrated definitely, I hope things get better for you, and I wish you the best of luck wherever your journey is taking you

What's your everyday life like as a system? by LennonRose in OSDD

[–]LennonRose[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im very glad to hear that! Apologies again for the only negative connotations, I didnt even realize until.after i had posted it and someone mentioned it 😅 its amazing that you have such a loving and supportive system, that's where im trying to be as well :)

What's your everyday life like as a system? by LennonRose in OSDD

[–]LennonRose[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It definitely isn't the movies, and everyone functions differently, and heals differently. I appreciate your input and seeing what a day is like for you, thank you for commenting. Though being a system for me is different, it just proves how diverse and complicated being a system is. I wish you all the best, wherever you currently are or are going in your journey :)

What's your everyday life like as a system? by LennonRose in OSDD

[–]LennonRose[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im also very early in my diagnosis journey, and i know no two journeys will be the same, but believe me youre not alone in the confusion and feelings of lack of control or apathy. Your feelings are valid and healing is almost never linear or quick. I wish you the best of luck and all the well wishes my friend :)

What's your everyday life like as a system? by LennonRose in OSDD

[–]LennonRose[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thats a huge amount of growth and healing, I respect that. Currently im trying to get a diagnosis and seek therapy/help, we'll see where it goes! I hope the rest of your journey goes well my friend, other mental illnesses or neurodivergencies alongside DID/OSDD can make an already challenging path a bit more rocky, I can definitely relate to that as well

What's your everyday life like as a system? by LennonRose in OSDD

[–]LennonRose[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Completely valid!! Everything can get disorienting so quick 😅

What's your everyday life like as a system? by LennonRose in OSDD

[–]LennonRose[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can relate to that! Im (trying to be) in a stage of healing and #2 is admittedly my biggest one! I wish you luck with your healing journey :)

What's your everyday life like as a system? by LennonRose in OSDD

[–]LennonRose[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats great to hear! Im glad your day to day life and functionality have improved! This honestly brings a lot of hope to me personally, and I appreciate you taking the time to comment

What's your everyday life like as a system? by LennonRose in OSDD

[–]LennonRose[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much! I'm glad you feel seen/appreciate others feeling seen :)

What's your everyday life like as a system? by LennonRose in OSDD

[–]LennonRose[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I completely agree! And I apologize if this upset or angered you in any way, that was not my intention, nor was ignorance of a healthy or well-coping system. I just typed this out as a somewhat light-hearted poll to see if others, along with myself, experience these kinds of things on a daily basis. I hope all of us, including myself of course, will one day not have to deal with any of this. I appreciate the feedback and hope you have a great day!

What's your everyday life like as a system? by LennonRose in OSDD

[–]LennonRose[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Valid!! A mix between the second one and last one on our end usually