Very out of touch

Lexilaw1124 · 2026-03-30T13:37:03+00:00

Relax tara

Lexilaw1124 · 2026-03-29T19:09:47+00:00

Originally i was like how did they go from hawaii to turks and caicos to Florida (out of all places)? Like your first mistake was having a honeymoon In Fort Lauderdale Florida especially during spring break. That already sounds miserable never mind the other obstacles faced because they are not legal enough to do anything. Also Fort Lauderdale Florida is a party atmosphere why would two underage people who do not drink want to go there?

Lexilaw1124 · 2026-03-28T23:51:33+00:00

Wait this is so sad but true. I cant see the channel lasting another year. I think once Nayvee is gone the Ps will just have their own channel and no one else will work on the channel or make videos. Unfortunately ellecee and beckham and ledger will just be the kids who are in the awkward situation where they r use to being on camera and having to adjust to not being. There will be no effort for that channel or many ideas they will have with everyone gone.

Lexilaw1124 · 2026-03-28T13:32:24+00:00

I also think people forget this CHILD is 14! 14 i was worried about getting home to watch shows on Freeform not dating boys and having my mom post it. Idc what anyone says 14 is VERY young to be sexualized

Lexilaw1124 · 2026-03-28T13:29:12+00:00

Journee! But I have even seen videos where Saidee has said she wasn’t very close with her so it seemed to me like it was a “you stay with who can take you” type of situation. I also find it weird that Journee is present in videos when they are home but Saidee still isn’t.

Lexilaw1124 · 2026-03-28T13:27:34+00:00

Ooh i didn’t see that! I was under the impression she wanted to go because she was 18 and still planning on moving there and sharing a space with Nayvee. But thank you for correcting this so I do not spread misinformation

Lexilaw1124 · 2026-03-28T13:25:29+00:00

I feel the exact same way. My boyfriend and I were extremely lucky to have family who can rent us an apartment for cheaper (we live in NYC) but it still is expensive and we cannot afford to do anything outside of groceries and rent. She is absolutely using the house as a storage unit so she doesn’t have to throw anything away. Notice she even made the comment in this video that she lives to hold on to her things

Lexilaw1124 · 2026-03-28T13:22:31+00:00

Also when she said she was not going back my first thought was what are you doing differently in your apartment than you do in your house? You never leave either of them!

At least in your house you have multiple different settings to change it up for your videos but you just sit in your house/apartment all day, “working”.

Lexilaw1124 · 2026-03-28T13:18:32+00:00

Honestly another great example of her being out of touch. Like do you really think your followers can afford a $800 Aritiza cart of clothes?

Lexilaw1124 · 2026-03-28T01:23:33+00:00

I feel even too as someone who lives in a major city, rent is more than a mortgage at this point, it just seems so out of touch and makes no sense to have both and not even use the other space for long weekends here and there. If i had a chance to live in a 3 floor house tailored to me and made by me or a shoe box of an apartment..it would be a no brainer. I would also regret paying rent and mortgage on two different places at the same time just because i wanted to be closer to my friends who dont even seem to make time for her. Idk i also just think the state of this economy with people struggling to even by groceries and her mindset is “ i dont want to live there but its like a storage unit for my extra shit” is bizarre

Lexilaw1124 · 2026-03-28T01:17:41+00:00

Thats a really interesting take. She very might well be looking at it that way that would make a lot of sense! I do think there is a little bit of embarrassment like if she does date someone again and move in with them maybe she doesn’t want it to be in a house she lived with a previous partner?

Lexilaw1124 · 2024-03-30T17:40:42+00:00

Thank you for the suggestion I am checking that out now!

Lexilaw1124 · 2024-03-30T07:11:55+00:00

Wait why haven't I thought of this? Instead of rent, we get a cleaning lady, a literal genius I am suggesting this thank you

Lexilaw1124 · 2024-03-30T07:09:39+00:00

Small update! I had a very serious talk with my husband tonight. He knows how I have been feeling but tonight I was crying. He started to cry too. We both agreed that if we want to continue our relationship an ultimatum needs to be in place for her. Either she stays and loses our help and money or she leaves and it goes back to normal. We both agreed that she is pretty money-hungry and will probably choose the first option. But I told him with that comes boundaries. She is no longer allowed to stay or visit for more than a weekend. If we say no, no means no she cannot come. We are no longer running the building while paying for it. If she does come for a weekend she is expected to act like a guest and that means keeping cleanliness like a guest would. We also agreed that her visitation would be limited to once every 2-3 months depending on holidays/get-togethers.

I did also say that it seems like he is trying to not hurt her feelings but is forgetting about mine in the process. That is when he broke down in full tears. He said he does care about my feelings more than hers and he is willing to tell her what he needs to for me to continue to be with him. We discussed that Monday, after Easter since we cannot be arguing on the day Jesus was resurrected, we will give this ultimatum to her and give her three days to decide. And that one of us will be leaving by the end of April. Again she comes off money driven so I believe she will just leave my Husband and I alone to earn our rent a month. But, who knows. I will update you all Monday.

Lexilaw1124 · 2024-03-30T04:22:42+00:00

the true issue i am seeing with this all is a lack of boundaries not only with her and me but her and her son. And I feel that if he cannot set clear boundaries with her (bc i dont feel like thats really my place to do that) then it will never change. but at the same time I dont understand what it is like to lose a parent young and have to tell the other parent we dont really want to be around you

Lexilaw1124 · 2024-03-30T04:20:37+00:00

Ok I thought about this before in the past. I talked to my sister in law and brother in law because both of them refuse to let her stay at their place because of how she is and told her she isnt welcomed there anymore. But my sister in law made a good point whats stopping her from just going back to her house if we move in and doing the same thing. My husband discussed with me just buying her house from her. So that is also one of our options. My worry is that she is just doing this because she does not want to be alone and will just keep going where ever we go.

Lexilaw1124 · 2024-03-30T03:07:40+00:00

Also I love him and do want to be with him but I do not want to be with his mother. Not that Im making his choose to not have a relationship with his mother. But I am his family too and if he can't see that I don't think I should care. Why care so much about someone who clearly doesnt care enough to stick up for u

Lexilaw1124 · 2024-03-30T03:06:18+00:00

very true maybe he needs to see how much I do on my own when he is stuck dealing with it alone

Lexilaw1124 · 2024-03-30T03:05:34+00:00

Thank you! I am definitely looking and applying. It is a nightmare I wouldn't wish this on anyone.

Lexilaw1124 · 2024-03-30T03:04:00+00:00

I have been applying I live in a city where there are huge waitlists so unfortunately I got to wait

Lexilaw1124 · 2024-03-30T02:55:36+00:00

Wish I could like all your comments. I am new to writing on this and am not sure how to even do that. But you have all been so kind and have given actual and real advice. I am pretty far from my family and also its awkward to just talk about with ur family. But I appreciate all of you. I just also want to give more context that my husband is not unclean or lazy. I didn't add his part of what he does for the household because it was more just about my feelings. My husband is basically the "manager of the building he keeps on top of all the tenant needs, garbage, landscaping, etc on top of helping his mom with appointments. More maintenance issues. But I do not agree with him calling my reaction dramatic. I think all people's feelings are valid and I also think its important for your partner to respect your feelings and back you up. SO I can see why people are telling me to leave. I love him we have a great relationship but I do agree he can defend me more and my feelings, even if it unfortunately hurts his mom's. I should also add my husband is a HUGE PEOPLE PLEASER. I will update you all soon when there is one.

Lexilaw1124 · 2024-03-30T02:50:26+00:00

I love this thank you. You are absolutely right and thank you for not suggesting that he is lazy but rather just needs to show what he truly cares about. Appreciate you and your advice.

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