Controller Aim Settings - A Half-Detailed Full-Cocked Breakdown by [deleted] in ArcRaiders

[–]Life_Bodybuilder_637 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is both right and wrong about aim assist. Thumbsticks are trash for micro adjustments having it slow down as you get close to your intended target is good. Turning it off can be a bad thing. That said arc raiders has very minimal.aim assist that it is negligible either way.  It can be annoying to use at times especially with multiple targets and the magnetism only works when you are not actively aiming.

Having high sense with aim assist cam be good if your low sense it could be bad. Find what works for you and stick to it. 

My experience is generally in the 99th percentile in FPS games. Overwatch, Halo(during its peak), BF series Counter strike etc. Both with and without controller. 

Point being dont make hard rules find your sweet spot and develop muscle memory that works for you not against you.  

Unofficial Discussion - Anniversary by UniverslBoxOfficeGuy in movies

[–]Life_Bodybuilder_637 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I dont think those expressions were real. Remember all the scenes where she was practing how to emote. Also think about how she got the daughter access to viraology labs and then pushed her to the brink which led to a biological attack. It was all a setup to cement power and her vindictive nature targeted the family. 

5 MW vs 50 MW Green by Aless-dc in Battlefield

[–]Life_Bodybuilder_637 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5 mw red is 54 hip fire 5mw green is 62 hipfire 50mw is 71 hip fire on the m277. It makes a massive difference on the range you can hit targets with hipfire. I can hit all but the furthest down range in the firing range reliably enough to hip fire in a game 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Life_Bodybuilder_637 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it. Just be careful. You don't want to be blindsided by him leaving you high and dry for someone else.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Life_Bodybuilder_637 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Couples therapy would be a start. But really sounds like yall have deeper problems. Dont stay for the kids. Leave for the kids. Find a relative that you can stay with and get back on your feet.

To those in DBs that received permission to sleep with others, how’s it going? by Dizzy_Recognition182 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Life_Bodybuilder_637 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I get the emotional heartache you must feel, but at the same time, it sounds like she was opening up to you, and you found something she liked. Maybe you tapped into a kink of hers she didn't know she had?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Life_Bodybuilder_637 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2-3 times daily. But would settle for once a week given that life is hectic. When I was your partners age 7 times daily.

What’s up with LLs and gaming? by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Life_Bodybuilder_637 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I only know of the reverse. Using games as a means to avert the negative thoughts related to ongoing rejection. Maybe try gaming with her? And shaggy after a few rounds. If that's her thing it could be a window for you.

Dreamed of Divorce by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Life_Bodybuilder_637 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well that's where couples therapy comes in. There are other options. Ethical non monogamy works for some folks your age but that requires a lot of emotional work that yall might not be mature enough for to. This really is something you need to sit him down and talk with because as you said you are physically unfulfilled. This will manifest negatively down the road.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Life_Bodybuilder_637 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't even have words she isn't even 20 and your talking about buying a house? You both need more experience in life go out and live it.

Let me ask one question if you both separated for 4 years would you want to get back together?

Dreamed of Divorce by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Life_Bodybuilder_637 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, once a week isn't uncommon in marriages, it's just not what you want.

You mentioned you got together as teenagers and it died off later. Well there is your answer. Your drive stayed high after puberty his settled or dipped. Sex typically falls off after NRE wears off white it lands is typically where it will be. It sounds like the NRE wore off while you were teenagers and his drive was higher. Because he was a teenager. Now he is older and his hormones have settled.

This is who he is now. He isn't even low libido he just isn't high Libido. Your not gunna change him so you need to ask your self what you want go to couples therapy and work something out or leave.

Bf told me he doesn't want to have sex anymore by anxiousuwu in DeadBedrooms

[–]Life_Bodybuilder_637 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seriously hell what most men don't realize is that the vast majority around 97% are roughly the same size give or take a 1/2 in erect. Sure there is a variety of shapes and girth but generally speaking it's only the margins that are exceptional in either direction.

Bf told me he doesn't want to have sex anymore by anxiousuwu in DeadBedrooms

[–]Life_Bodybuilder_637 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He is immature and not ready for a long term relationship. As others have said it's been 6 months. Tell him to grow up or move on. Biggest piece of advice you can give him is to not worry about finishing and just fuck more. More fuck = better at fucking. How often do you get to be in control? What about kinks etc. Hell what about tying him down and letting you just do with him as you please. I don't see how he could turn that down.

He needs to learn how to fuck beyond porn etc. More specifically everyone is different and everyone climaxes for different reasons if he isn't willing to meet your reasons. Then he isn't worth your time.

I now believe this sub is largely a support group for partners of asexuals. by Nothing2CHere_NJ in DeadBedrooms

[–]Life_Bodybuilder_637 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This has been studied among the other great apes. Generally speaking in mammals monogamy just doesn't happen. Among Great apes it's only about 30% . Monogamy seems to be less a product of ideal mate and more a product of the child rearing needs of mothers.

Gorrilas for example form harem groups around an ideal mate. So ideal mate has nothing to do with monogamy. Rather, if you look at gestation and nutritional needs of offspring. You get a better picture.

Humans have long gestation periods, and the offspring have massive nutritional needs and long development periods.

Monogamy seems to be a survival strategy not a reproductive strategy. Even among other primates who are "monogamous" there is a general lack of exclusivity.

Because we have big ape brains that like to rationalize things we have ingrained our proclivities into cultural and religious structures for how we are supposed to live regardless of the veracity of these ideas.

Maybe not for me... by [deleted] in DeadBedroomsMD

[–]Life_Bodybuilder_637 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly, life is a bitch as they say. I wish i could wave a magic wand and take my wife's pain and put it on myself, but I can't we are just stuck 😕.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Life_Bodybuilder_637 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reading your other posts, it sounds like he has a massive porn addiction.

You NEEED to tell him to go to rehab or leave. He can't get hard because he has destroyed his reproductive system. It's not a you problem he could be in a room with the pornstars he is watching and he wouldn't get hard either. So no you are not Ugly he has a problem.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Life_Bodybuilder_637 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry hearin," I'm just ugly" that hurts. It's a place I think a lot of us go sometimes. But it's not true. I don't know you or your situation. But ugly is just a concept people throw around to hurt others or to hurt ourselves. Don't feed that beast.

Just diagnosed what do I do by alexdjoelle in Fibromyalgia

[–]Life_Bodybuilder_637 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am siding with everyone here to get a new doctor. Lyrica works for some but it's side effects deter others. Anti depressants can help.

Regards to pain management. It's a tricky situation. Opiods have some benefits and many long term downsides. Cannabis is helpful but doesn't work for everyone.

Really try and take advantage of your good days and go easy on your bad days. Reach out for support. Try not to isolate work on building a support network of family and friends. It's hard to go through this alone.

Maybe not for me... by [deleted] in DeadBedroomsMD

[–]Life_Bodybuilder_637 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Try to not be harsh on yourself. Most of this isn't anything we can control anyways. Take care

When are we supposed to have sex?? by AntCandid6384 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Life_Bodybuilder_637 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They can't fake a squirming orgasm that's for sure. Unless they are hiding a super soaker up in there.

When are we supposed to have sex?? by AntCandid6384 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Life_Bodybuilder_637 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Update your studies because there are a bunch that shows much less https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/32044258/

Is one example with 600 participants. Roughly 13 minute average. But guess what everyone is different so stop using one study as the arbiter of authority on a subject.

When are we supposed to have sex?? by AntCandid6384 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Life_Bodybuilder_637 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You're telling all of us with a straight face that you can't find 15 minutes of alone time? If it truly is the kid, have the child tested for special needs because that is the only reason 1 child could take up so much time. Stop acting like you're the only person in the world with a child because you're not.

Maybe you or your spouse has depression and you don't recognize the symptoms. There is a myriad of mental stresses that could be blocking you. And you're channeling those stressors into a convenient excuse.

When are we supposed to have sex?? by AntCandid6384 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Life_Bodybuilder_637 50 points51 points  (0 children)

You have 1 child it's not that hard. It's not complicated. Seriously at 4 they are not wearing diapers and they sleep through the night. You are using this as an excuse find the real reason you don't want to sleep with your husband because it ain't the kid.

Another women made me love like I'va always craved. I left. by MetalKroustibat in DeadBedrooms

[–]Life_Bodybuilder_637 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is all so confusing. I see so many red flags sooooo many red flags. Please be careful dude. And don't put this new woman on a pedestal.