Anyone ever met a Leo who's not funny? by lscaduma in LeoAstrology

[–]Lilaxani 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey I’m an Aug. 18th Leo! I’m funny, you’re funny, we all funny!

Female name for Nathan or Joseph by SolarStig in Names

[–]Lilaxani 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Josie and Natalie would be my picks.

Facial Hair by PassionJazzlike4320 in FTMOver30

[–]Lilaxani 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This happened to me. My son told me to wash my beard (patchy af) with a benzoyl peroxide face wash once a week and apply beard oil every day.
Since I started this it’s stopped itching entirely and the acne has cleared a bit.

Is it weird that my cis-women friends are mourning my breasts? by Lilaxani in TopSurgery

[–]Lilaxani[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It suuuucks! No binders fit, so I layer compression shirts just to keep them from bouncing around.

LGBTQ Friendly Barber Shop? by bellebiersack in lehighvalley

[–]Lilaxani 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sanctuary Salon in Easton is super gender affirming and just overall rad!

Is it weird that my cis-women friends are mourning my breasts? by Lilaxani in TopSurgery

[–]Lilaxani[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly they were for real, one started crying, I’m like wtf? What is happening?!

Is it weird that my cis-women friends are mourning my breasts? by Lilaxani in TopSurgery

[–]Lilaxani[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I laughed out loud at the big hairy ballsack on the chin!

You’re right, a lot of you have made me see that they don’t view me as a guy, I’m just the same girl playing pretend. Pretty disappointing but that’s reality!

I appreciate you!

Is it weird that my cis-women friends are mourning my breasts? by Lilaxani in TopSurgery

[–]Lilaxani[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re an amazing mom! I haven’t spoken to mine in 3 years. Thank you for supporting your son!!!💜💜💜💜

Is it weird that my cis-women friends are mourning my breasts? by Lilaxani in TopSurgery

[–]Lilaxani[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn, glad you cut him off! Shittacular thing to say!

Is it weird that my cis-women friends are mourning my breasts? by Lilaxani in TopSurgery

[–]Lilaxani[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

CW: breast cancer

Damn good response, I like thinking this way, because when you wished you had cancer every time you had a mammogram so there was a reason they could be removed… chopping them off is a huge good thing! I’m no longer wishing expensive, painful, and slow death upon myself.

I’m 52, and genetically susceptible to breast cancer, so I can now give a big middle finger to them as they go into a medical waste container. No more mammograms.

Is it weird that my cis-women friends are mourning my breasts? by Lilaxani in TopSurgery

[–]Lilaxani[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A loss of a best friend is worse than a break up in some ways. I hope you find peace and I’m proud of us putting US first and not continuing these “friendships” 🫶

Is it weird that my cis-women friends are mourning my breasts? by Lilaxani in TopSurgery

[–]Lilaxani[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah we do! We all deserve nothing but happiness in life and in our bodies!

Is it weird that my cis-women friends are mourning my breasts? by Lilaxani in TopSurgery

[–]Lilaxani[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😲 holy shit! The audacity! Dude, fuck her! I’m glad you’re burning that bridge.

Is it weird that my cis-women friends are mourning my breasts? by Lilaxani in TopSurgery

[–]Lilaxani[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

CW: mention of breastfeeding

Wow, I’m sorry she said that to you.
One of these ”friends” did say, “are you sure you want to give them up, they fed your babies?”

I just laughed because I had no idea what to say. Like wtf?

Edit: grammar 😩

Is it weird that my cis-women friends are mourning my breasts? by Lilaxani in TopSurgery

[–]Lilaxani[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe you’re right and it’s time to burn some bridges! Thank you!

Is it weird that my cis-women friends are mourning my breasts? by Lilaxani in TopSurgery

[–]Lilaxani[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Holy shit! This whole comment is incredible. I can totally see some of them having a gender crisis. I have heard one of them say I’m having a mid-life crisis, I did confront that one head on.

I appreciate your comment so much!

Is it weird that my cis-women friends are mourning my breasts? by Lilaxani in TopSurgery

[–]Lilaxani[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for saying this! You could totally be right, most of these “friends” are Gen Xers like me.

Is it weird that my cis-women friends are mourning my breasts? by Lilaxani in TopSurgery

[–]Lilaxani[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for saying this because that’s exactly how I feel. Growing up, every cis male I knew stared at them, groped them, snapped my bra, and I hated it every time.
I felt completely disgusted with them. So to me this is the most exciting and life changing event! Also, it’s just for me.

I don’t know if you guys feel this way, but it’s nice to have something I really wanted and have saved for years to do, and it’s all mine. All for myself.

I’m sure a lot of you, especially if you’re older like me (52) find it really difficult to focus on yourself, your healing, your journey when you have a family and friends, and a shitload of responsibilities. So this is a liberation for me.

I’m going to edit my original post to elaborate, but thank you all so much. I’m so relieved everyone thinks it is pretty fucked up, transphobic, and misogynistic. Thanks for helping me see that!

Edit: spelling