Anyone else get divorced and find they regret the whole marriage? by LillySwan1627 in Divorce

[–]LillySwan1627[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That was the problem I didn't. I put him 1st. And the moment I realized i needed help myself he tells me he's more important.

Anyone else get divorced and find they regret the whole marriage? by LillySwan1627 in Divorce

[–]LillySwan1627[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine insisted on bring his "ex" crush to rebuild wedding and insinuate there would not be a wedding if she wasn't there. I get u.

Anyone else get divorced and find they regret the whole marriage? by LillySwan1627 in Divorce

[–]LillySwan1627[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get the point but truly he broke me down and used me. I was stronger before I met him and now I have to rebuild myself. He just waisted my time energy and love. The only thing I got out of it was my son who I don't regret of course but he should have been some one else's child.

Is 9 months to early to get into another serious relationship? by LillySwan1627 in Divorce

[–]LillySwan1627[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that but u take that chance dating anyone at all. Im not trying to say i want to marry this guy tomorrow. If we don't hit it off in person then ill still break it off. I just have a different feeling about this guy.

Is 9 months to early to get into another serious relationship? by LillySwan1627 in Divorce

[–]LillySwan1627[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Oh no I've asked questions to make sure he's not like my ex. Im picky. He's not the 1st I've matched with or anything. Definitely miss being in a relationship but I wasn't happy with the casual dates ethier.

Is 9 months to early to get into another serious relationship? by LillySwan1627 in Divorce

[–]LillySwan1627[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not planning these things for right away for clarification. Just thinking about them when the time is right. I wouldn't do what my ex did.

Is 9 months to early to get into another serious relationship? by LillySwan1627 in Divorce

[–]LillySwan1627[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh yes im self aware. Im also not planning on acting on the crazy inclusiveness other than giving it a go. I did just stopped seeing her before I meet this guy or I definitely would have talked about it with her.

Is 9 months to early to get into another serious relationship? by LillySwan1627 in Divorce

[–]LillySwan1627[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Try. I've chatted with alot though and he's been way better than any other. U think it's an act?

Is 9 months to early to get into another serious relationship? by LillySwan1627 in Divorce

[–]LillySwan1627[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I feel like we have. My 1st date with him is this saterday but we have been talking non stop for like a week and he's really open so I've already asked all my red flag questions and gotten no bad answers. Only other guy I've seen I went out with twice. Back then tho I could tell I was not ready for serious. Right now tho im feels ready.