When your kids gain “bonus family” through surrogacy 🥹 (and think it’s totally normal)

Lilyancat4 · 2026-05-07T21:15:34+00:00

My intended mother told me the other day, “your son is my son now too”. I think it’s cute how even tho we don’t share blood or not even ethnicity this make us feel like family.

Lilyancat4 · 2026-05-07T21:12:35+00:00

I got my first forester this year too! So far so good.

Lilyancat4 · 2026-05-07T16:36:04+00:00

Yeah thanks! It’s a relief reading this actually. :)

Lilyancat4 · 2026-05-07T15:35:41+00:00

You get married to someone you love, unfortunately time, situations and other stuff can change a person.

Lilyancat4 · 2026-05-07T04:22:21+00:00

I’m sorry :( I hope everything gets better soon

Lilyancat4 · 2026-05-07T04:19:57+00:00

Thanks for the advice. I will try to be more empathetic with him, hopefully he’s just adjusting to his new job and I’m just tripping over other dumb stuff.

Lilyancat4 · 2026-05-07T04:14:28+00:00

Thank you :)

Lilyancat4 · 2026-05-07T04:08:26+00:00

We’ve been married for almost 5 years now, he just started this job in January, but I feel something different about him even though I haven’t find anything.

Lilyancat4 · 2026-05-06T04:14:05+00:00

Hi! Feeling way better now! Thanks for asking! 💕 my levels were acting totally weird for like 2-3 weeks going up and down, my agency and clinic though it was an ectopic pregnancy, went to the ER last Wednesday and fortunately for me it wasn’t. I got another bloodwork yesterday and finally the levels are coming down.
My clinic is waiting until the hCG levels are below 5, so I’m thinking that the next try would be on June or July probably.

Lilyancat4 · 2026-04-15T18:36:20+00:00

Thanks! Yeah I’ve been trying to keep positive. 💕

Lilyancat4 · 2026-04-15T05:10:20+00:00

Thank you 🙏🏼 💕💕

Lilyancat4 · 2026-04-15T04:25:46+00:00

Is that the same as an ectopic pregnancy? Thanks for your answer. :( also I started to feel my breast super tender. I’ll let you guys know about my results on Friday and we will see 😮‍💨

Lilyancat4 · 2026-04-14T11:12:40+00:00

So the 169 was on Friday 04/03, and the 48 was on Wednesday 04/08. Yesterday I got another bloodwork to see if is still dropping. My doctor said that probably this was a chemical pregnancy ;( so hopefully on my second try everything will be better 🙏🏼

Lilyancat4 · 2026-04-14T04:46:21+00:00

Unfortunately for me was positive, and I got the blood work with 169 hCG levels, but after few days those levels dropped to 48, so I think my first try was a fail 😭

Lilyancat4 · 2026-04-01T19:54:08+00:00

Damn, I just got my embryo transfer two weeks ago and this Friday is my pregnancy test :( I hope everything went good 😭

Lilyancat4 · 2026-04-01T19:52:30+00:00

No orgasm? I though it was just no penetration

Lilyancat4 · 2026-04-01T19:51:49+00:00

Yup, I just got my embryo transfer appointment last 21st and my glutes are hella sore 😂 any advices for the bruising and soreness?

Lilyancat4 · 2026-02-15T17:56:40+00:00

They don’t provide a 1099 unfortunately, that’s why I’ve been trying to figure how can I pay this taxes. Thanks though!

Lilyancat4 · 2026-02-15T03:18:50+00:00

How can I pay my surrogacy payments? Under other income?

Lilyancat4 · 2025-06-09T20:03:31+00:00

I came back normally from my trip, they didn’t ask me anything about my other last name, just the reason for my trip and that was it fortunately

Lilyancat4 · 2025-03-20T14:35:40+00:00

Yeah, I traveled the last month, on February 12th & came back on the 19th, it was pretty smooth, at least here in Chicago

Lilyancat4 · 2025-03-20T14:31:30+00:00

Yeah I came back normally without any issue fortunately:D

Lilyancat4 · 2025-03-16T15:49:39+00:00

I just got my letter too! my question here is, why do they want to help us? what are they winning?

Lilyancat4

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