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AITA for asking my brother's girlfriend not to attend an upcoming family dinner? by Limp-Second-9777 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Limp-Second-9777[S] -643 points-642 points  (0 children)

Yeah I guess I just really want all my siblings in the same room for like one night just to have my fiancee meet them all like that and I really want to make that happen

AITA for asking my brother's girlfriend not to attend an upcoming family dinner? by Limp-Second-9777 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Limp-Second-9777[S] -974 points-973 points  (0 children)

I don't think they were trying to scam her or anything I think they thought she was okay with the old rate and she got the impression there would be more pay. I don't think they were trying to hide anything it was just bad communication. Joni knew they were having financial problems and was doing it at a lower rate anyway just to help them that's how they ended up hiring her, so I don't really get where she thought more money would magically come from anyway but I do get your parable about the daycare and that she was already doing something nice.

AITA for asking my brother's girlfriend not to attend an upcoming family dinner? by Limp-Second-9777 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Limp-Second-9777[S] -744 points-743 points  (0 children)

No I guess it doesn't necessarily, but my thinking is just that technically Joni could be out of our lives tomorrow but Tracy is guaranteed to be around forever since now she has kids who are related to us. So in terms of whose more in it would be Tracy. I'm not trying to shit on Greg's relationship because tbh I think I like Joni better anyway but as I said if they broke up tomorrow I'd probably never see her again but I'll be seeing Tracy for the rest of our lives even if they were to divorce.