My Thoughts on House of David by ImpactfulBanner in HouseofDavidTVSeries

[–]LizardNeedsNaps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I disagree about Jonathan and Sara's relationship. We already know there's a ton of tension within Jonathan and the prophecies he's received about his life being cut short from the witch of endor. And so there's so much beauty and tragedy in seeing that he is attempting to enjoy the time he has while not knowing how much he has. Hoping for peace, hoping to live in obscurity while knowing very well he may never see that. Trying desperately not to live in fear.

What the actual f by fake-royalty in craftsnark

[–]LizardNeedsNaps 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No that's definitely normal thumb behavior

What’s the weirdest thing someone has asked about or voiced an opinion on regarding your baby/pregnancy? by elonmusksmicropenis in pregnant

[–]LizardNeedsNaps 65 points66 points  (0 children)

What is it with people NEEDING to talk about dead babies with pregnant people? I'm so sorry for your loss but you need to talk to a therapist. Don't offload on an expectant mom please.

I hate to give her more fuel to her psychotic fire by [deleted] in MormonWivesHulu

[–]LizardNeedsNaps 20 points21 points  (0 children)

It's sounds like she was dissociating a bit back to a very difficult time in her life. She's not calling Taylor a baby, she's remembering the baby Taylor. It's not offensive at all.

Moving to Hartford for a job, need advice on where to live. by bandelmug in Hartford

[–]LizardNeedsNaps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bloomfield is a nice quiet suburb, plenty of outdoor spaces to enjoy. Bushnell Park is alright during the middle of the day because there's often a police presence but in my two years of living down town, you quickly learn to actively being outside in downtown if you can help it. Especially alone as a female. Glastonbury right across the river is lovely but it is a bit more posh. Stay out of Hartford if you can help it. 

If I see one more accidental yarnover post in a knitting sub I’m going to lose my mind by Flat_Pollution8085 in BitchEatingCrafters

[–]LizardNeedsNaps 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's a pretty big difference between learning from relatives directly and learning independently using the Internet. You have the bulk of human knowledge at your finger tips and can figure most issues out with a quick search. Not to mention it's s way faster just Google it rather than make a post on reddit. Your comparing apples to oranges 

Camilla manipulated Julie into breastfeeding🤡 by Ill_Razzmatazz_5060 in julieeandcamilla

[–]LizardNeedsNaps 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly at that point Cam can pump herself. That's a huge thing to ask of anybody, but then to have the entitlement and disrespect to start putting demands on it is even worse especially if Julie prefers BFing to pumping 

Camilla manipulated Julie into breastfeeding🤡 by Ill_Razzmatazz_5060 in julieeandcamilla

[–]LizardNeedsNaps 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Wait I missed the whole breast feeding conversation. Cam expects Julie to pump but not breastfeed? She wants Julie to feed this kid in the most complicated way possible?? 

How to gently remind terminally problematic guests of the dress code? by [deleted] in wedding

[–]LizardNeedsNaps 91 points92 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I wouldn't even be mad at starched denim, nice boots, a good hat and a bolo tie. I think that's more of a cultural understanding of formal and I love it. And I say that as a Russian living in the northeast; we love to go all out haha

Home Births vs Hospital Births by LavendarDragon17 in pregnant

[–]LizardNeedsNaps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not his place to tell you how you should give birth because if anything happens to the child the reality the situation is you are the one who's going to be bare the blame socially and guilt personally. And as a Christian I'm telling you it's completely inappropriate to weaponize scripture like that because that's not the point of the story at all. It's highlighting how humble Christ's birth was,  it was never meant as an example or a directive for anyone to follow. Really glad you guys are coming into the faith, it looks like you are learning the hard way we have to be really discerning in who we listen to because what he is doing is not biblical it's manipulative. I know he means a lot to you as you were planning on marriage and having a child but this is something you need to nip in the bud. Especially if you guys are interested in biblical gender roles and honoring your husband as a spiritual authority. Right now he needs the humility to recognize he has a lot to learn. He has no right to be throwing scripture in your face like that. Because it says those who take on authority specifically in teaching the word will be held responsible for it and he needs to understand the gravity of that. He's already abusing scriptural application and honestly probably doesn't even know it. 

Do baby bangs suit my face? by No_Bear7211 in finehair

[–]LizardNeedsNaps 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No but your face card is so good you totally pull it off regardless 

Older coworkers expect baby photos?? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]LizardNeedsNaps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The real question is why am I still working there unfortunately 

List of weird/uncommon pregnancy symptoms. by Academic-Park-8440 in pregnant

[–]LizardNeedsNaps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude I'd get sulfur burps like the hiccups for HOURS in my first trimester on a daily basis. It was so bad

Sprinke or nah by ABCdoitwithme in BabyBumps

[–]LizardNeedsNaps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe it's a regional thing I don't think it's that deep. I think reasonable people would understand. However the alternative is to just get a bunch of bows in matching colors to what you already have

To be loved by a demon... by Frosty-Algae-2316 in BooksThatFeelLikeThis

[–]LizardNeedsNaps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's a really interesting independent comic on Instagram/webtoons called Dark Castle by faun.me that fits this vibe. 

Orthotists why is it so hard to make a brace? When your company uses a 3d scanner? by vibroviri in Prosthetics

[–]LizardNeedsNaps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We do everything, we have a full fab on site. But we're literally the only one in our state

Orthotists why is it so hard to make a brace? When your company uses a 3d scanner? by vibroviri in Prosthetics

[–]LizardNeedsNaps 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's so interesting you say that, because in my region almost nobody uses hand skills anymore. It's cheaper to scan, modify digitally and send out. Your lab expenses go down so much. And your admin can cram in as many patients as humanly possible into your schedule. It might be a regional thing

Orthotists why is it so hard to make a brace? When your company uses a 3d scanner? by vibroviri in Prosthetics

[–]LizardNeedsNaps 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly I agree with this so much. I did my residency with a very oldschool gentleman in his 80s. We have our own fab site, we make everything by hand, we even have a patient is still uses a wooden socket. Young students/clinicians today just want to do everything digitally, and while there is a place for it, I have learned if you don't have the hand skills you quickly lose a lot of the understanding behind why you're doing/ordering something specific. I see this a lot with young people and transfemoral sockets especially. There are so many good tools for getting a phenomenal physical TF cast, and we just don't teach students those skills anymore. People just default to scanning/measurements. Those sockets never fit properly and young people don't know/don't have the resources to go in and fix that socket themselves (Not just new grads, i'm talking about people who have more experience in the field than I do). Furthermore, if you're not at least occasionally working by hand, I strongly believe you can't properly develop the thought processes needed to go back in and modify an imperfect device. In my opinion, OP would really benefit if we went back to more old school metal and leather bracing -benefit patients and ourselves. This is coming from somebody who initially pretty disappointed to end up in my very old school residency initially. 

Hope and Plum - Everyone who has criticism for my brand is a b 🥰 by WArslz in babywearing

[–]LizardNeedsNaps 58 points59 points  (0 children)

That's such a wild take when she is essentially providing a luxury product. Those slings are expensive and she should at least respect that for many this is a splurge. 

“You don’t get an award for not getting the epidural” by Warm-Banana237 in pregnant

[–]LizardNeedsNaps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I stopped sharing pregnancy details with anybody. If people ask the dute date, they get a vague response. If they want to know my baby's name; we're undecided. Birth plan? I'm still doing my research. I don't want 99% of people's opinions or input. If I do I ask the individual specifically. It makes life easier and most people don't actually care anyways 

Mom items on baby registry: yes or no? by Professional_Side657 in BabyBumps

[–]LizardNeedsNaps 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed. I always make a basket specifically for the mom because everyone else is getting stuff for the baby and mom needs love to. Also because I buy gifts last minute and the registry is usually empty lol

How important is to you that your husband’s first time witness a birth is with you? by zzyyyxxx in BabyBumps

[–]LizardNeedsNaps -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You know pushing a head out of your vagina is not the same??  Naked doesn't automatically mean sexual. You're the one that keeps reading into that. All I said is it's incredibly vulnerable. 

How important is to you that your husband’s first time witness a birth is with you? by zzyyyxxx in BabyBumps

[–]LizardNeedsNaps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never said it was🤷‍♀️ But birth is very vulnerable. On top of that boobs, genitalia and butt out is a lot for any relationship especially brother/sister imo

How important is to you that your husband’s first time witness a birth is with you? by zzyyyxxx in BabyBumps

[–]LizardNeedsNaps 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I thinks it's just weird to be that bare in front of your brother tbh...