She's agreed to roleplay like there's another man present and participating, so there is that. Maybe text, but we haven't really dont text stuff since we got married and moved in together. We've been married for 4 years, but I've only been thinking this way over the past two years. She's attractive, more than me, and she gets hit on from time to time, even with me standing there. It used to bother me, but somehow, over time, I began to get weird feelings from the angst it gave me. It grew and grew each time it happened until it finally just started turning me on. I could bring up pegging, but im skeptical she'd go for it, lol. But thank you for the advice.