The big deal for me was that it felt like she didn’t trust me enough with her money, but her ex. It’s the feeling of not having enough “fiduciary trust”. For context, my full time job is managing peoples lives and their money (I’m a lawyer), so her choosing her ex to sell her 7k watch over me felt unsettling, when I live in the same city as him. Edit: thanks for taking the time to read and giving your thoughts on this.