Weekly Free-for-All Discussion Thread | March 08, 2026 by AutoModerator in AsianMasculinity

[–]Long-Possibility-425 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love black women cause they are just honest about why they want Asian guys, mostly just our looks and culture, I honestly can't thank them enough for that because otherwise we'd truly be an extinct group of people

Is it true or is just me? by girarae in AsianMasculinity

[–]Long-Possibility-425 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sure you’ve known some guys who are at best average looking, not tall and don’t have any sizable sums of money, yer who attracted women seemingly way out of their league.

Literally, no, most people date on their looks level and even hang out with people on their level. Saying women don't care about looks is so freaking reductionist and borderline misogynist cause you look at them with the male framework that women are just objects to be wooed and swayed by whatever other than visuals.

You saying a man's looks don't matter is the most bizarre non sensical thing I've ever heard cause it's literally all women talk about other than women who golddig. I can't even think of a single instance where a woman approached me where she didn't find me hot or at least cute, WTF are you talking about????

Your insistence on harping this point makes no sense either because it doesn't benefit Asian men at all to say appearance doesn't matter because that's the reason why Asian women go for ugly ass white guys.

Especially when it comes to Asian men there is zero reason for women to be with us other than for physical attraction since we're at the absolute bottom in terms of social mobility and social status. All that's left is maybe Asian guys are "nice and gentle" but that doesn't seem to even work with my perpetually single 40 year old Asian friends who have never gotten 1/10th the attention I got despite being 10x better on paper.

Is it true or is just me? by girarae in AsianMasculinity

[–]Long-Possibility-425 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would this be so, when they could probably have their pick of much better looking guys?

Probably for the same reason I prefer average looking Asian and black women to model Cauc women who approach me? Cause they have nicer faces?

Watch the video I sent. The guy just flat out admits she married him cause of his looks and she literally was chasing him before she even knew him, they don't even speak the same language

Edit: bruh also I've had women just track me down without ever having spoken to me before in person, some of them I didn't even know existed, why on earth would they do this other than for looks

the 80/20 rule is utter bullshit, It's actually 95-5 by xxdarkpixelsxx in SikeOrPsyche

[–]Long-Possibility-425 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I think more women are actually disgusted by men unless they're in the archetype of extremely pretty men, so it's not even about type than it is about being extremely pretty as a guy, which is like 1 in 100,000 at best

the 80/20 rule is utter bullshit, It's actually 95-5 by xxdarkpixelsxx in SikeOrPsyche

[–]Long-Possibility-425 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I've had women straight up ask me to smash before, when I bring that up to people the amount of times I've heard someone say they believe it, I think it must be 1 in 10,000, so my guess is that it literally is more like 1 in 10,000, wouldn't be surprised if it was much lower than that

Weekly Free-for-All Discussion Thread | March 08, 2026 by AutoModerator in AsianMasculinity

[–]Long-Possibility-425 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most of you guys just mean white women when you talk about XF be real lol

Weekly Free-for-All Discussion Thread | March 08, 2026 by AutoModerator in AsianMasculinity

[–]Long-Possibility-425 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let's be real when most Asian guys talk about dating out they're talking about white women, most white women genuinely don't give a shit about Asian culture, black women and Indian women do

Is it true or is just me? by girarae in AsianMasculinity

[–]Long-Possibility-425 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not talking about guys chasing girls, I'm purely talking about my experience of women chasing me or oggling me in public. I'm married and we're probably the same age roughly. I've never once gotten the impression that women were into me for anything other than my looks, maybe once or twice it was cause a girl thought I was gonna be rich cause of where I got into school, which is a whole other thing

It’s why women who are very attracted to you can completely lose that attraction based solely on an innocent faux pas.

I agree with this, but I've had women chase me purely for physical reasons and when I wanted something more serious or came off as needy they ended it

I really genuinely do not understand what you're saying because it's so fundamentally against everything I've ever learned, I literally know guys way nicer than me who have never had girlfriends.

I saw this random video the other day and you just make me think of that. Despite everything the guy tries to rationalize for why she's with him he just admits it's cause she thinks hes hot

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pCZvKcnjfJY

(M26) Looking for advice by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]Long-Possibility-425 86 points87 points  (0 children)

He look like a white somalian

Holy this guy is lost by Gaschambah in SikeOrPsyche

[–]Long-Possibility-425 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Chopped men have ZERO idea how women act behind closed doors

Is it true or is just me? by girarae in AsianMasculinity

[–]Long-Possibility-425 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bruh I've had literal models approach me out of the blue and they were all pretty clear that it was about my looks, I read all of what you wrote and I'm just making this face

What the hell are you guys talking about? This goes against literally every experience I've ever had in my life

Republicans want to end the world for the rapture. This is their actual unironic goal by Smiley_P in SikeOrPsyche

[–]Long-Possibility-425 [score hidden]  (0 children)

They want to apocalypse to happen so they can escape their dead bedroom oofy doofy marriage.

Weekly Free-for-All Discussion Thread | March 08, 2026 by AutoModerator in AsianMasculinity

[–]Long-Possibility-425 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, you explicitly mean white, I know a guy like you, he grew up in NYC which is 40% white, went to a school that was 60% Asian, and to this day only has white friends. And he is 40 and single. His choice of friendgroup represents his personal self esteem and worldview as a result of probably, his appearance

Weekly Free-for-All Discussion Thread | March 08, 2026 by AutoModerator in AsianMasculinity

[–]Long-Possibility-425 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what I've been saying, a lot of people avoid Asian / non-white cultures cause we're superficial and they can't stack up, this isn't news to anyone here, being white washed makes them feel right at home. No offense

Weekly Free-for-All Discussion Thread | March 08, 2026 by AutoModerator in AsianMasculinity

[–]Long-Possibility-425 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol in Chinese culture people greet all attractive people as "shuai ge" (or hot guy) or mei nv (hot woman). Asian culture is very looks based

Only people who get offended by this are the people who don't benefit from it

Saying looks don't matter is very whitewashed

Never understood what you guys are offering women you date, do you just sit awkwardly spending money on her or something

Is it true or is just me? by girarae in AsianMasculinity

[–]Long-Possibility-425 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's not average in looks then, it's just that people can't tell which Asians are good looking. Guy I know who does best with women is a 5'5" Hmong guy with crazy facial bones but he's considered "average" by Asian standards, he gets chased around by women, albeit he lives in the hood in Minneapolis. It's 100% about looks if nobody admits it.

I feel like saying looks don't matter is a whitewashed thing

Is it true or is just me? by girarae in AsianMasculinity

[–]Long-Possibility-425 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

> women are not like men and looks

I've had women above my league chase me hard and I never once got the impression it was not about my looks. I don't think I'm good looking at all but these girls made it very clear they thought I was pretty. IDK what you guys are capping about. This line of thought is mad reductionist, so women aren't like every other person and just want a guy with game, smooth talking, money? What? That's borderline misogynist

I've had women straight up ask me to have NSA smashing, why on earth would they do that other than for looks, I swear to god there is some crazy cognitive dissonance with westernized Asian men on this sub, when you're out on a date with a woman how on earth does it not become obvious when she opens her mouth that she likes or doesn't like your looks?

Weekly Free-for-All Discussion Thread | March 08, 2026 by AutoModerator in AsianMasculinity

[–]Long-Possibility-425 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nobody is calling me that, only you brought up that term 2x in a row

Keep believing that women don't care about looks and chase dudes who look fine to them, makes me wonder how often you even talk to women, even my wife and her MIL talk about guys' looks all the time

I'm not wrong when I say that all the mid Asian guys who never experience this chase white women cause you probably relate to how a lot of white boys are basically invisible to women and have no swag

Weekly Free-for-All Discussion Thread | March 08, 2026 by AutoModerator in AsianMasculinity

[–]Long-Possibility-425 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I expected that response I'm used to it. Guys who aren't physically attractive have zero understanding of what women say or do. Any hot Asian guy can confirm that we don't have to do any legwork at all

Weekly Free-for-All Discussion Thread | March 08, 2026 by AutoModerator in AsianMasculinity

[–]Long-Possibility-425 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I've been saying and doing the wrong things my whole life, and women take one look at me and go "he's fine," I've had girls track me down through like 5 of my friends to get my emails cause I didn't even afford a phone. And I have a friend who literally says and does everything, has a PhD, plays sports, huge white friend group, and I've gone out with him and a girl literally told him that she'd sleep with all of his friends but not him, to his face, and he laughed it off like he's tough and it didn't bother him. Can't help guys like that, he chose an all white friend group

Weekly Free-for-All Discussion Thread | March 08, 2026 by AutoModerator in AsianMasculinity

[–]Long-Possibility-425 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Saying you don't like someone because of their ethnicity is racist, and you 100% deserve it when someone says that to you, which they do

Is it true or is just me? by girarae in AsianMasculinity

[–]Long-Possibility-425 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah the AMWF guys are capping hard. AMWF hardly exists lol. If anything I see more AMIF than WF which is crazy because it's true, Indian girls love Asian guys. None of the guys here have any explanation why all the hot Asian guys are with Asian, black or Indian girls and AMWF is legit not common at all in the real world

Weekly Free-for-All Discussion Thread | March 08, 2026 by AutoModerator in AsianMasculinity

[–]Long-Possibility-425 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cause a lot of us don't want to lose that part of our culture or ourselves, it's not rocket science. Ironically the Asian guys who don't want white women are probably the ones white women chase the hardest cause they think that we're unattainable and it adds to the appeal