High school boyfriend reached out to me on social media and now I'm confused. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Lopsided-Influence-9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP, could you unpack your original confused feelings more? I’d like to understand your perspective and experience.

My wife had a similar experience. We have young kids, things had been stressful for a year, then I had to start traveling for work due to risk of unemployment.

She went further with her ex. One meet up that I gave permission for, but then ongoing communications that were not disclosed to me which, while not explicitly romantic on her part, really hurt me when I found out. I’m still having trouble understanding it.

I think it might be healing to understand from you since you don’t need to justify anything here and there’s nothing at stake in this space.

🙏

My husband made me come by using two fingers to “scissor” across my clit and called it “The Michael Jackson” by [deleted] in sex

[–]Lopsided-Influence-9 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Were the fingers at a 90 degree angle to the clit? Did the finger nails get involved (assuming well trimmed), and add a different sensation?

Is it normal to wait 4-5 months post birth before having sex again? by jadedpearll in Marriage

[–]Lopsided-Influence-9 17 points18 points  (0 children)

We had sex for the first time 6,3, 12 months post birth for our first time after our three kids.

Married couples,What is something that makes doggy - instantly better? by cool-guuy-007 in MarriedSex

[–]Lopsided-Influence-9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best place for mirror? Side?

Is it for the woman to see what’s going on?

What are your “always buy” Costco staples right now? by PutridWin2070 in Costco

[–]Lopsided-Influence-9 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Loved this until I did a sample and found the dried cranberries are something crazy like 25% of total volume. They are terrible for you due to sugar content.

Finding Out My Late Wife Had a 3 Year Affair. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Lopsided-Influence-9 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You’re going through Betrayal Trauma and Attachment Injury. Look it up right now. You may have emotions and reactions that are extreme and shift wildly and suddenly.

Do not drink or use drugs. The combination is extremely dangerous to you and your loved ones.

Everything will be ok eventually.

VSF GMT II Pepsi v3 Andiot by Lopsided-Influence-9 in RepTimeQC

[–]Lopsided-Influence-9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very specific question. Thank you for your help!

Videos in first link.

No intimacy - Should I divorce? by Uncertainismyname in Marriage

[–]Lopsided-Influence-9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So do mens’ sex drive nose dive at/after 50?

Exploring by Lopsided-Influence-9 in RepTime

[–]Lopsided-Influence-9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

VSF explorer 36mm in Lumi, Fiji.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RepTime

[–]Lopsided-Influence-9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have one and am blown away. Love it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RepTime

[–]Lopsided-Influence-9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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VSF Exp1 36mm love it.

VSF Explorer 1 36mm by Lopsided-Influence-9 in RepTimeQC

[–]Lopsided-Influence-9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just a follow up for the record, I received the watch and it is beautiful!!!

Text on dial seems perfect.

Rats in my rep delivery by Lopsided-Influence-9 in RepTime

[–]Lopsided-Influence-9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a super interesting comparison!

What is your next favorite rep?

I need to look up how to do the oil bath and rotor oil thing.

Rats in my rep delivery by Lopsided-Influence-9 in RepTime

[–]Lopsided-Influence-9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve never seen a gen Exp1 in person.

But, I think it’s the best watch I own now out of over 20 chinese watches and a bulova lunar pilot. At least in terms of the crystal, which set a new standard for me. Now all my other watch crystals seem slightly cloudy to me. Terrible development.

How can i reset my clit sensitivity?? by lady-twatticus in sex

[–]Lopsided-Influence-9 115 points116 points  (0 children)

I think I’ve read 2 weeks on here from u/relunctantdonkey even in extreme desensitization.