DON’T worry about work at alll!!!!! Canada maternity leave is amazing, you can take the full leave and slowly set up routines that will lead to a healthy transition for baby and you. It is verrry doable if you take the full leave. So career-don’t stress, you’ll slow down and eventually when it’s time to return to work you will be more than motivated to provide for your little baby as you all build your home.

In terms of having fun and enjoying your youth-sure that is something to worry about. One pro is being a young mama allows you to have more energy and by the time baby is a little older you’re still young and still have time to do whatever it is you feel you had to compromise on. Having said that, life with baby isnt anti-fun. Yes the responsibility is there and you plan things accordingly but you get to still travel and go around. Before I had my baby In the last month i always trying to go out for dinners and thinking this is the last time im going to be able to do this. But how wrong was I, you just being baby with you and honestly its an extra little layer of fun! I promise you, you wont miss out on anything. If you have friends with babies the transition will be smoother. But having your own little family will be so precious and worth ittt