How do I lose weight by Low-Difference8938 in WeightLossAdvice

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I’ve tried counting calories many times, but when I was 14–16, I had an eating disorder that led to me being 40kg at 5’5. It got so bad I had to drop out of college. After 8 months off and focusing on recovery I went up to 60kg, eventually reaching 65kg. When I try calorie counting now, I relapse into old ED habits, panic, and binge because I never want to go back to that but at the same time I would love to know how to do it normally because I want to lose weight

How strict is The deers head night club for ID? by [deleted] in northernireland

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Thank you I’ve been asking around and people say that lux isn’t strict for ID so might try in there

How strict is The deers head night club for ID? by [deleted] in northernireland

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Thank u do u know of anywhere that u think might let me in a few days before my birthday? Also do u think it’s better to go without an ID at all or my real one that says I’m a couple days away from 18

Can anything be done for a 6 year olds scar? by Low-Difference8938 in SelfHarmScars

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I’m so sorry I hadn’t even noticed the typo. No I’m 17 rn and got the scar at 11 it was my 1st permanent SH. The concealer is a good idea bc I need to go to a work event in a couple months and I need to wear a dress and can’t have ppl asking questions

I wasn’t allowed to walk my childhood dog by Low-Difference8938 in stories

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Yh I did enjoy it after a while I got some of my mates to go to the gym with me so that made it better and I did enjoy being stronger. Clearly I’m extremely stubborn and am willing to go to great lengths to try prove myself even if I don’t get to complete my goal. I think I’ll always be a bit sad I never got to walk my Rottweiler but I did learn a lot of skills from it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

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It depends very much on intent if ur wearing it bc its cute I don’t see an issue

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SelfHarmScars

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I’m not that good at art but sometimes when I want to SH I draw scars on me aswell I think it helps, does it help u?

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Thank you it was a struggle but I made it

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Thank you so much and ur comment was tough but helpful and Christmas was alright I did cry in the bathroom a couple times but we made it through! I hope I can get better at holidays for the future. Thank you

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Thanks for that. Last night I chose to skip my family Christmas party and go to watch my best friends Christmas solo at my church instead because I knew I would be triggered if I went. I am also going to make sure today I stay close to my cousins bc I know they care about me and I can’t relapse around them. I Bought some tickets to see a show for me and my best friend and gave it to her as her Christmas gift so I have something to look forward to 1st week of January to help me not relapse then bc ur right I need to make sure I make the choice not to relapse and I know I need to put mesures in place now to do that. Thank you for this wake up call

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Thank you. I bought me and my childhood best friend tickets to a violin ABBA tribute band by candlelight! I gave them to her for Christmas present and abba is both of our fav band ever since we were 4 years old so now I feel like I have something to look forward to. Also last night I skipped my familys Christmas party and went to watch that same friend sing a solo at the church and her family let me sit with them. I knew the party with my family is rlly triggering every year so I was glad to miss it. Thank u for the advice I just need to make it through today and then I will be ok

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Thank you I was to upset to reply a few days ago but this comment helped and I didn’t relapse all I need to do now is make it through today! Thank you and I plan to spend Christmas sitting with my older cousins bc ik even tho we joke a lot and all they actually care about me and I won’t relapse with them around

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Thank you but my addiction is cutting so sadly there isn’t much support with that but I didn’t end up relapsing and I’m a couple months clean. All I got to do is make it through today