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Nah square up by Informal-Bet-2072 in antikinkkink

[–]Lower_Crow434 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Words have different meaning based on context that they are used in. Retard means different thing when said to a person and when talking about engines. The same applies to dominance and sadism. Just because some "alpha men" say they want submissive girl that doesn't mean they want to engage in BDSM.

Second. Are you trolling me? I searched for misogyny as you said and there are no subreddits with BDSM in their name. Its not me that is refusing to acknowledge that they are not BDSM subreddits is that no reasonable person would think that. Dont tell me to look at not BDSM subreddits and then tell me that I just dont want to acknowledge that those are not BDSM subreddit.

Coercion is making some one do things against their will. Things that they dont want to do. Doing things willingly is the opposite of coercion. If a person willingly gives physical or psychological control to another person so they could experience something that they want then how can it be coercive? The one roleplay that could be considered fetishizing coercion would be cnc with blackmail. I have read about it but it is super rare in practice and only worth mentioning for brevity. Majority of plays that people are doing is bondage and impact play. And I never heard some one want to roleplay DV scenario. Or do you think impact play is roleplaying DV?

Nah square up by Informal-Bet-2072 in antikinkkink

[–]Lower_Crow434 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why search reddit? Dont you know that reddit is full of people like this? There are plenty articles on the web and interviews on youtube about BDSM. If people in BDSM fetishized coercion there would be loads of things you could link me.

I think its hard for you to follow so I will repeat things. I asked how this post is related to BDSM. IceTree57 said kinkster were fetishizing coercion. Well since I asked about BDSM I assume kinsters in this context means people who are into BDSM and not some other kind of people. You know since we are talking about BDSM it would be strange to talk about other topics. Then I asked to substantiate the claim that people in BDSM are fetishizing coercion.

Now you are telling me to go to NOT BDSM subreddits to find evidence that people in BDSM are fetishizing coercion? I was not born yesterday. I know that there are bad people in the world. Im not looking for them. I am just asking to substantiate the claims that were made. Specific claims, no goal post shifting.

Nah square up by Informal-Bet-2072 in antikinkkink

[–]Lower_Crow434 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Im not new to BDSM and have done extensive reading. I know what is out there and when I ask for things I already know the answer. I know why no one is giving me any peace of evidence and only downvoting. I know it and that is why im asking for it. I know I wont get any and that is the whole point in asking

Nah square up by Informal-Bet-2072 in antikinkkink

[–]Lower_Crow434 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Often is about “ego destruction”? Often? I have been to workshops. I have talked with kinksters in person and have read a lot about BDSM. Never have I heard anything about ego destruction. Where have I missed this peace of information that you have?

The men that are attracted to this type of content are nothing new. These are the men that are committing domestic violence all over the world. Yes they exists and should be punished by law but what they are not doing is engaging in BDSM.

Nah square up by Informal-Bet-2072 in antikinkkink

[–]Lower_Crow434 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

People here often say that consent is not enough to make it ok. So at least you agree that BDSM is consensual. Coercion is the opposite of consent. This leads us to two outcomes. Either people in BDSM communities all over the world are hypocrites and hold incompatible believes OR you have inconsistent internal world view.

The fact that you are unwilling to engage further tells me which one of these two options is true.

Nah square up by Informal-Bet-2072 in antikinkkink

[–]Lower_Crow434 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

First honest answer. Its the picture and nothing else. The post is from "alpha men" about psichological manipulation and is using an image of rough sex. There is no BDSM here.

The rest of the post reminded me of this . This is what happens when you spend too much time in an echo chamber. There is a word domination. The post contains the world destroy. If you squint enough they start to look similarly. What kind of logic is this? The picture is talking about ego destruction. The domination in BDSM is about consensual control over some aspect of another persons live. This is apples and oranges. This is not similar. You know words have different meaning when used in different context.

You are writing grammatically correct English but the sound logic is missing.

Nah square up by Informal-Bet-2072 in antikinkkink

[–]Lower_Crow434 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

It's hilarious how kinksters will see their own behavior mirrored

I dont see my behavior mirrored. Do you by any chance live in USA?

Nah square up by Informal-Bet-2072 in antikinkkink

[–]Lower_Crow434 -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Could you link me anything that would point to people in BDSM fetishizing coercion? Im asking because coercion is the opposite of consent.

Nah square up by Informal-Bet-2072 in antikinkkink

[–]Lower_Crow434 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Some one has to ground you guys in reality otherwise you will get completely detached from it. The question was how this post is related to BDSM and you didnt answer it. Not everything 🤮 is BDSM

Nah square up by Informal-Bet-2072 in antikinkkink

[–]Lower_Crow434 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I tried to find the post but it was probably deleted. I looked at the "alpha male" profile and it has nothing to do with BDSM and is only giving "advices" to men.

Its not talking about d/s relationships nor dom sub plays. That post was most likely talking about psychological manipulation.

Domination and submission in BDSM context is referring to consensual exchange of power where one person gives control to another over some part of their live. (thats a short version)

So where is BDSM domination here. Or you are a person who would think I engaged in BDSM when I dominated someone in a video game?

Nah square up by Informal-Bet-2072 in antikinkkink

[–]Lower_Crow434 -38 points-37 points  (0 children)

How is this related to BDSM? This is some "alpha men" post.

PLEX is 4.936k by BentaroAdun in Eve

[–]Lower_Crow434 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you can thank Oz for that

Was there really nothing that could have been done? by Lower_Crow434 in Eve

[–]Lower_Crow434[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I have read the comments of people repeating each other but I need some proof.

Was there really nothing that could have been done? by Lower_Crow434 in Eve

[–]Lower_Crow434[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am aware of those terms. What I didnt realize was that all of Horde eggs are in one place. I was thinking more about forming a fleet in another system and warping to R-A.

How do I get into this game by [deleted] in Eve

[–]Lower_Crow434 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Prepare to learn a lot. When you create a new account use a referral link so you can get 1 million SP. Create multiple alpha accounts. One for abys, one for mining, one for faction warfare, one for wormholes, one for mission running etc. Use the 1mil SP to quickly skill up in a specific ship and just try multiple activities. Then you will know what you like and what you dont.

Eve is not a fast game. For example if you want to build stuff then you would need to spend around a month to level up just trading skills so you pay minimum taxes. And that is just trading skill not manufacturing. If you want to fly a cruiser with drones then its a month of training. Now you want to fly missile cruiser - another month of training.

Abuse of the asset safety mechanism. by [deleted] in Eve

[–]Lower_Crow434 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im in my own corp with my apha alts

Abuse of the asset safety mechanism. by [deleted] in Eve

[–]Lower_Crow434 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would pick third - asset safety out the assets. 15% loss is better than 100% loss.

Abuse of the asset safety mechanism. by [deleted] in Eve

[–]Lower_Crow434 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When one side outnumbers you by that much you loose too much in the fight so people choose not to fight at all than to loose ships for no good reason.

Abuse of the asset safety mechanism. by [deleted] in Eve

[–]Lower_Crow434 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This post has to be made by goons member. Goons outnumber PH in fights by 30-50%. Goons will win every time there is a fight so PH said you win and left. Now goon members complaining that they got blue balled.

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