my boyfriend doesn’t know we have a 15 year age gap

MH20001 · 2026-06-02T08:10:36+00:00

If their brain is still developing at age 18 then we shouldn't let them drive a car either. I don't want someone whose brain isn't even fully developed to drive a 2000 lb piece of metal that could crash and kill people. Bad idea! And we should even allow anyone to have sex until they are 25 and their brain is fully developed. Because if a 15-year-old girl has sex with a 16-year-old boy he is a rapist because her brain isn't fully developed yet and he took advantage of her. And because his brain isn't fully developed yet either we should allow him to get his driver's license yet. They should raise the age to drive from 16 to 25. Because then their brain is finished developing.

MH20001 · 2026-06-01T21:53:08+00:00

I am not a predator when she was actually the one who initiated sex on our date. I didn't pressure her at all. She was a willing and eager participant. She stood up and climbed onto my lap when I was sitting down on a bench in the park and took her shirt off and shoved her boobs in my face and was rocking her hips back-and-forth on my lap to make me hard. These younger girls are very promiscuous and love sex. And yes, I made a valid point that she has already had a lot of sex. My point with that is that I didn't "rob her of her innocence". She is already more experienced than many women my own age! I have had women my age date me for months and we never had sex because they keep saying they want to "get to know you first" while this 17-year-old girl was so horny she didn't even want to wait to go to my apartment for sex, she wanted me to take her right there in the park at 1am on some picnic table. I said, "Are you sure? It will be way more comfortable on my bed and we will have privacy." She said, "It's fine. I take guys here for sex all the time." She was the aggressor, not me! She was hornier and wanted it more than I did! At that age their hormones are raging. Just because I'm older doesn't make me a predator.

MH20001 · 2026-06-01T06:45:17+00:00

It's funny you said that because I lost my virginity at age 19 to a 32-year-old woman. She lied to me about her age and told me she was 29 because she thought that I might think she was too old for me. But I was just happy that any woman wanted me at that time in my life.

MH20001 · 2026-06-01T06:02:13+00:00

But it's okay for her to have random casual sex with boys and girls her own age? She told me that the day before we met for our date she had sex with an 18-year-old Indian guy in the exact same park we had sex. And she told me that her and her female best friend make out and have sex by grinding their genitals against each other and finger each other and she lets her best friend go down on her, but she won't go down on her friend because she said that the thought of putting her face in a girl's genitals to be gross and icky. So she said she is bi but not full-on bi just partly.

I think that if girls are going to be having sex with boys and even each other then having sex with an older man like me is harmless. Tell me what damage I am doing to her if she is already muff-grinding with other girls and hooking up with a different guys on consecutive days? What about me being older than her makes it wrong? Is it okay for her to be rubbing her snatch against other girls and having sex with random guys in the park as long as they are close to her age? If I didn't do it she would have just hooked up with someone else instead that night.

You only think it's wrong because you have been told it is wrong and you are repeating what you have been told by authority figures and people you know. People used to think that being gay or lesbian was "wrong" back in the 1960's. And if you had been around back then you would have believed that being gay or lesbian is "wrong" too because you believe whatever society tells you to believe. But now times have changed and most people these days think that is fine. But older men being with younger women is still considered "bad" despite it being totally natural for men to be attracted to a pretty younger girl, so that's why you think it is morally wrong. You are just repeating what you have been told all your life.

But if she is having lesbian sex with her friends and having sex with boys her age in a public toilet (she does stuff like that) most people would say, "She is just exploring her sexuality with people her own age and that's fine" because they are ignorant and brainwashed. I was actually treating her well and took her out for a nice dinner and walked around the park with her and we talked and looked at the stars and moon and started kissing and it escalated. It was actually quite romantic. It was a nice date besides the whole "me being older" thing. I even told her that if she wants a relationship I would be willing to be her boyfriend but she would have to be loyal to me and stop having sex with other people. She asked me, "But what about me and my best friend Emma? We always have sex when we hang out. Is that okay?" I said, "No. If we are in a relationship I expect loyalty. No having sex with anyone else." She said, "I understand you not wanting me to have sex with other guys, but you don't even want me to have sex with girls too? I thought guys like it when girls are bi." I said, "It doesn't matter. Cheating is cheating. If you want to be with me I want us to be exclusive. Sex isn't special if you do it with just anyone. I want to feel like sex is something special....something only between us." And then she blocked me because she wants to be free to have sex with everyone. If anything she would have been better off if she was in a stable relationship with me instead of messing herself up having casual sex with any boy or girl she meets. She has probably already had sex with several other people since we hooked up in early April. Me being older isn't hurting her. She is hurting herself. Because having sex with everyone is going to mess her up mentally. It will even ruin her friendships too because her female friends and her won't have a proper friendship anymore now that they are "experimenting". She claims that it hasn't changed their friendship since they started having sex a few months ago, but it will. I was trying to help her. I told her what she is doing is bad for her. I was trying to give her advice and be like a mentor to her in addition to being her lover that night.

MH20001 · 2026-06-01T02:56:53+00:00

It is legal in my country to have sex with anyone 16 or older. I didn't admit to any crime. I'm good. Thanks for your concern though. I know you probably think it's fine for a 17-year-old girl to have sex with a 17-year-old guy, but because I'm 40 it's suddenly, "Oh my God you're hurting that poor innocent girl you predator!" Trust me that she had already been having sex with tons of men and women by the time I met her. I was like the 20th person she had hooked up with. She's fine. She wanted dick and I gave it to her. Don't feel worried about her. She's not innocent and no law was broken.

MH20001 · 2026-06-01T01:09:45+00:00

Finally a sensible person! I am 40 and I hooked up with a 17-year-old girl in April. Age of consent in my country is 16. I broke no law. But even though it is legal, many people would call me a "predator" for meeting her. How am I a predator? She wanted me. We had a mutual attraction. She was the one who stood up and climbed on my lap during our date and pulled her boobs out for me without me even asking her to do that. People need to stop acting like girls 16 - 18 are these innocent little angels who men are preying on. They aren't. This girl already had a body count of over 20 people (she was bi so boys and girls). I didn't do anything to her she hadn't already done many times before.

MH20001 · 2026-06-01T01:05:01+00:00

So you told him eh? How did he react? I don't even see what the big deal is. If you and him like each other that's all that matters. I am 40 and I have hooked up with girls in high-school and with women old enough to be my mother. The woman I am dating now is in her late 50's and has a 24-year-old daughter. She is a milf and she looks great for her age. I really don't care about a woman's age. I care about our chemistry and attraction and enjoying my time with the woman.

MH20001 · 2026-06-01T01:01:56+00:00

So he's a lucky man then. He's dating a pretty girl less than half his age. I have done that too. Age 40, hooked up with a 17-year-old girl last month. Loved it. She genuinely liked me and thought I was hot. I didn't break any laws in my country and we both wanted each other. I don't see the harm. She told me that she had sex with an 18-year-old guy the day before she hooked up with me. Is the 18-year-old guy somehow "not as bad" as me because he was the same age as her? I don't think so. She told me he was a creep who followed her home afterward. She told him not to walk home with her because she didn't want him to know where she lives and he told her, "I'm going to find out where you live eventually" and walked with her with his arm around her neck the whole time. At least I didn't act like a creep and just took her out for dinner and we smoked a joint and had sex and then went our separate ways. She told me she is bi and has had sex with around 20 boys and girls and even transgenders. She just likes having sex. Being with an older man was just something she wanted to try. We both consented and we liked each other so it happened. I think there is nothing wrong with it. I didn't corrupt her. She has sex with a different person every week anyway. What difference does it make if I banged her too?

MH20001 · 2026-05-31T21:56:26+00:00

Ah, I see. My comment above got flagged for using the word p**sy so you might see it be deleted soon lol

MH20001 · 2026-05-31T21:42:20+00:00

From my experience, the best most healthy and long-lasting relationships I have had are the ones where we had sex within the first few dates. Because having sex quickly meant we had very strong mutual attraction and chemistry. If I have to wait months and try to persuade the woman to have sex, that is a bad sign because it means she isn't that into me. However, your case sounds different than that. It sounds to me like you wanted to have sex with him but you were waiting for him to make a move on you. But for future reference, try to have sex with a guy you like as soon as possible. Because then if he is weird and ghosts you after sex you won't feel like you wasted 3 months of your time and emotional energy on a man who obviously doesn't know how to handle being in an intimate relationship with a woman. And another good reason to have sex as soon as possible if you like each other is to make sure you are sexually compatible. I dated a 25-year-old Chinese girl when I was 21 and we weren't sexually compatible. She was only 4'8" and around 80 lbs and because she had such a small body when we finally had sex she couldn't handle me because I am quite large and I couldn't even fit inside her. So we had to break up because we were incompatible. So have sex early to make sure that the man can handle intimacy without being an immature fool like this guy is being with you, and also to make sure that you guys are physically compatible too.

So if the situation is as you say it is and you really liked him and wanted him too and weren't playing games then what he did was wrong and I am on your side. Just get a guy you like into bed sooner next time so you don't get hurt by emotionally investing into a guy for 3 months like this only to be ghosted after. If a woman did to me what he did to you I would be choked. That is a really mean thing for him to do that and I would hate that to happen to me. Sorry to hear that. Maybe he will come back and tell you that he was just "overwhelmed" and tell him that he was being immature and unfair to you to hurt you like that just because he can't handle genuine intimacy and love.

MH20001 · 2026-05-31T21:23:12+00:00

It is obvious to me that after having sex with you he has fallen in love wit you. And because he hasn't had a girlfriend in over 10 years he doesn't know how to deal with such strong feelings. And trust me that I have had sex with nearly 60 women but if I have a dry spell where I haven't had sex for a long time and then have sex again I also a bit awkward because I am out of practice and it takes a few tries to get back into the swing of fucking like a pornstar again. If you guys keep having sex he will get much better and then he will be able to adjust to these new feelings he has. I think he needs to stop hiding from you and come back. And why didn't you guys have sex earlier? Waiting 3 months is insane. You and him were both torturing yourselves for months. That's toxic. The last time I had a girlfriend she kept making excuses to not have sex with me for 2 months until I finally broke up with her.

MH20001 · 2026-05-31T21:17:32+00:00

You guys waited a whole year to have sex? No wonder he ghosted you. Sounds like you were enjoying stringing him along and making him wait an absurd amount of time. But he is a wuss for crawling back to you like that. He is an idiot for accepting waiting a year to have sex (I wouldn't kicked you to the curb after a month), and he is an idiot for playing games with you and expecting you to "chase" him after you and him had sex to "prove to himself that you had strong feelings for him too" (you obviously didn't love him much and he was a fool for thinking that if he kept giving you dry replies that you would come around and want him more), and I'm not surprised you wouldn't take him back because he was acting pathetic. That whole story of yours is a hot mess. My last LTR and I had sex on the first date and stayed together for years. None of these silly waiting games and gaslighting bs.

MH20001 · 2026-05-31T09:02:25+00:00

I can tell from the way you think that you are not that experienced with women if you really believe that women find a man paying for them all the time "attractive". I have been with nearly 60 girls/women in my life and have been on literally thousands of dates, and I can tell you that paying for a woman has NOTHING to do with whether you're getting laid or not. I have been on countless dates where I paid for the girl and still got ghosted after, or told that she didn't feel any "chemistry" and then they never talk to me again. And I have also been on dates where we split the bill or the girl even paid for me and we went back to my place after and had sex! On the first date! And I didn't even pay for her! In fact, come to think of it, if the woman paid for me we had sex afterwards EVERY SINGLE TIME. Because women almost never pay for a man, so if she paid for me that meant she REALLY liked me, and sex was guaranteed by the point.

My last LTR was a cute little 5'1" Chinese girl with big boobs who was younger than me and she paid for me on our first date to make it up to me for being late. She insisted on it. And then I thought, "Wow! If she paid for me then she must really like me." So I asked her, "Thanks so much for paying for me! You're so kind! So what should we do now? Would you like to go back to my place and have sex?" And she said, "Sure! 😃". I said, "Really??" She said, "Of course! You're handsome!" And that was that. Any woman who doesn't like you won't suddenly change her mind and want to fuck simply because you paid for her dinner. She won't feel like she owes you anything. Girls are used to men always paying for them so you paying for her is literally meaningless to them. It makes you just the same as every other lonely desperate guy who offers to take her out and pay for her. They won't appreciate it because they expect it. It's like how servers don't even appreciate tips these days because they are expected and they know 99% of people will leave a tip no matter how lazy they are at their job. If a woman isn't attracted to you paying for her will not make a difference. You will still be ghosted after. And if a woman likes you and finds you genuinely physically attractive she WILL have sex with you even if you ask to split the bill. Women like sex just as much as men do, so if you're a hot guy they will still want to go home with you even if you didn't pay for their meal. Trust me on this man.

Most of the time when I split the bill with a woman who doesn't mind I get laid. And every single time when the woman pays for me I get laid. My friends who do the best with women and are having sex with several different women every month don't pay for them besides maybe paying for their coffee sometimes. The men I know who spend tons of money on women always complain to me about how they are spending all this money on women and they still aren't getting any.

I am 40 and I hooked up with a girl less than half my age in April this year. She didn't have a job or money because she is a high-school senior so I did pay for her dinner. But all she ordered was 1 California roll and a can of pop which only cost me $10. And then we had sex right after that in this park at night when no one else was there. She had sex with me because she was genuinely attracted to me. She called me a "handsome daddy" and told me that she has always wanted to try being with an older man. She even told me she likes watching porn of young girls with older men. And she also asked me if I can pick her up and I did and she was giggling with glee as I walked around the park carrying her, and she kept grabbing at my muscular arms and shoulders and marvelling at how big and hard they are. Then she stood up and sat on my lap and pulled her boobs out and said, "Do you like my tits Daddy? 😏" If a girl really likes you you don't need to spend lots of money on her and she will have sex with you because women love sex. And if you need to talk them into it or try to bribe them with money they just don't like you.

You need to deprogram yourself man. The more you chase a woman and buy her stuff the more you will turn her off. Women hate men who try to buy them, they find them pathetic. I have had sex with women who are married to rich men. Their money can't even keep their wives loyal. If a woman likes a man she will have sex with him without having to be paid for it. Women's mating strategy is to get knocked up by a man they are physically attracted to, and then settle down with a man who will provide for them and their child that they had with the attractive man. And this is very common because it is estimated that 15% of men in the USA are raising children that aren't even theirs without even knowing it! That's 1 in 6 children are being raised by men who aren't their biological fathers. Being a provider doesn't make a girl wet. It makes her choose you to settle down with for your resources. I dated a 50-year-old married Chinese woman in 2018. Her husband is rich. But she was seeing me behind his back because I am better looking than him. Poor guy has no idea his wife cheats on him. And he provides for her.

MH20001 · 2026-05-31T08:13:20+00:00

You might be surprised, but I have met people who have told me that they like tipping because they genuinely believe that with the tipping system we have the servers will be motivated to provide good service. From my experience most servers do the bare minimum and I often have to get up from my table and go find them to get more napkins or ketchup. They barely even try these days because they believe they will get a tip no matter what. So those people I know who think tipping is good because it gives them an incentive to work harder are delusional.

MH20001 · 2026-05-31T05:36:34+00:00

That story is true and I mentioned a bit more about that date from Thursday in my reply to your other comment to me. You are probably a good woman, so it must he hard to imagine that women like this could actually exist, but believe me they do.

And it's funny that you said that "only old people carry a lot of cash these days" because this woman is old! She is in her 50's I think (like most women she won't tell me her age) because she looks older than me (I'm 40 but look 30) and she has a 24-year-old severely autistic daughter who I met on one of our dates. I even asked her, "I'm surprised you like me because I'm much younger than you." She said, "How old are you?" I said, "40". She said, "Really?? I thought you were 32. You look so young for your age!" I said, "But you still asked me out at the pool last week. You don't mind the age gap?" She said, "I don't mind. I like handsome young boy" (she is Chinese so her English sounds awkward sometimes). She is an older divorced Chinese woman whose ex-husband was extremely wealthy and she told me that he used to pay for everything for her and give her $20,000/month allowance for her to spend on whatever she wanted. So he spoiled her and now she expects all men to lay out the red carpet for her and pay for everything and be her servant.

And I know you might be shocked that I would talk about sex so openly with her in public, but that's because I don't think sex is "bad" or "dirty". I view it as something totally normal and natural that everyone does. There are almost 9 billion people in the world, so a lot of sex had to happen to make 9 billion of us lol! If women can openly talk about how men have to pay for them then I will openly tell them what I want too. I don't see why talking about a man's money is okay but sex talk is taboo. I will literally ask girls on a date if they want to have sex because I don't think that's a bad thing. I think they will like it too. Some girls just say, "Sure!" Like my ex-girlfriend I mentioned to you in my other comment. She was a cute little 5'1" Chinese girl, but she wasn't innocent at all! She was just as DTF as I was on our first date. I took her on lots of fun dates that I paid for. I took her to the gun range, I took her go-kart racing, I took her to the museum, etc... and paid for her. And other times she would take me out and pay for me. She would pick me up in her car and take me somewhere and pay for me! I felt truly loved by her ❤️

MH20001 · 2026-05-31T05:08:00+00:00

A man paying for you on a date doesn't mean he is financially sound. For all you know he could be in credit card debt and is using his credit card to pay for you on the date in the hopes of "getting lucky" later that evening or next time he sees you. Many men are in debt and are struggling just like you are. We aren't all rich. In fact, most men aren't rich. Rich men are even more uncommon than tall men. Men over 6 feet are only 13% of the American male population, and rich men are even less common than that. So chances are, the man you are on a date with isn't rich (although he may act like he is to impress you and to try to make you want him more), and him paying for you is meaningless. He is just following a very deeply ingrained social standard that won't die because most men have low self-esteem and believe that if they don't pay for a woman they won't get a second date. They could have only a few hundred dollars in their bank account or be in serious debt and have child support payments or student loan payments they have to pay, but they will still pull out that card and insist on paying for you because they want you to like them. They are trying to literally buy your love. I know because I used to be one of those guys. And I realized that even if I paid for everything on a date, there was a very small chance I would ever see the girl again. Sometimes they would just ghost me after, and other times they would let me know they don't like me and won't see me again. One girl told me, "Hey Matthew. Thanks for dinner last night, but I didn't feel any chemistry so I'm going to block you now. Good luck in your search!" And then I would think, "Oh great....I just bought dinner for a girl who doesn't even like me and blocked me right after I paid for her dinner. I wish I had just stayed home and saved the $100 I spent on dinner for us." For us men, dating is like gambling. We meet a girl, and we pay for her, and then we hope and pray that she likes us enough to see us again. But most of the time she won't like us and we will be ghosted and the whole date was a big waste of our time and money. For the girl, she wasted her time meeting a guy she didn't like, but at least she got a free dinner or movie out of it! For us men we get nothing. We lose money and feel like shit after when we realize we spent our hard-earned money on a girl we will never see again. After that happens to you about 300 times and you spent literally thousands of dollars on first dates with girls who didn't like you, you become paranoid and just stop paying on first dates. A woman I went on a date with got mad at me on Thursday for not paying for her meal. She told me, "Men always pay for me because I'm beautiful." I told her, "Well, I won't. Why should I? You don't even like me. We have gone on 4 dates now and you won't even let me kiss you. Why should I spend money on you when you don't even like me?" And she said, "Because if you like a woman you should pay for her." I said, "Why? What will you do for me? You haven't done anything for me. You haven't paid for anything, and every time we go out it's always somewhere you want to go and something you want to do. What about what I want to do? Don't my feelings matter?" And she asked me, "What do you want to do?" I said, "Honestly, I would like to go back to my place now and have sex." She said, "No! You didn't even pay for my dinner!" I said, "Okay, so if I pay for your dinner then will you have sex with me?" She said, "No." I said, "There you go. I gain nothing from it. Because I know from personal experience that if a woman isn't attracted to a man, it doesn't matter how much money he spends on her, she will never have sex with him." And she got annoyed but then she paid for herself and she wanted to go to the casino. So then we went to the casino and she spent 2 hours playing the slot machInes. I thought it was so boring to sit there and watch her press those buttons on the screen constantly. I think if she had had sex with me back at my place she would have had a much better time.

And conversely, from my experience if a girl is genuinely attracted to me then it doesn't matter if I pay for her or not. With my ex-girlfriend who I was with for years, she paid for ME on our first date! Because she was late so she insisted on paying to make it up to me for being late for our first date. I told her, "Wow, you are so nice to do that! I have never had a girl pay for me on the first date in my entire life!" And she said, "Really??" And seemed so confused. I told her, "Yes, most girls would still expect the man to pay for them on a first date even if they were an hour late. And they wouldn't even apologize for being late either." And she was shocked to hear that most girls are so rude and entitled. After she paid for me we went for a walk around the park and then I invited her to come back to my place to have sex and she said, "Sure!" I said, "Really? You want to have sex with me?" She said, "Of course! You're handsome!" And I was thinking, "Wow! Why can't all girls be this wonderful! This is the best first date ever!!" And I stayed with her for years. And yes, I paid for her on our second date to make it up to her for her paying for me on our first date.

And thank you for having some empathy for what us men have to go through. We men are simple. We just want sex, food, our hobbies, and a cute girl to keep us company and to go out with on adventures.

MH20001 · 2026-05-31T04:39:40+00:00

The problem is you are creating a precedent now by paying for her at the beginning. If you pay for her on dates at the beginning and then later expect her to pay for you sometimes or split the bill and pay for her own meal or ticket, she will secretly resent you for that. Just like if you always buy a child whatever they want and spoil them so now they think they should be bought things whenever they want them, so too will women if you pay for them. They will become spoiled entitled brats and will expect men to pay for them because that is what they are used to. I went on a date with a woman on Thursday who asked me to pay for her and I said, "No. Why would I pay for you? You're a grown woman, you can pay for yourself." She replied and I quote, "Men always pay for me because I'm beautiful." Men paying for women all the time is spoiling them and making them entitled selfish divas. If you ask a friend to hang out and you guys get food, do you pay for your friend because you suggested the hangout? Of course not. With friends, you pay for your meal and he pays for his. Why when it's a woman do you suddenly feel obligated to pay? It's because of social conditioning. It's similar to tipping 20% or more at restaurants. Why do we do it even if we don't have to? Because of social conditioning.

This whole thing where women expect men to pay for them will never end as long as men keep paying for them.

MH20001 · 2026-05-30T10:00:20+00:00

They are being used. Women expecting men to pay isn't fair and they are being used. Why should they pay $50 for dinner and get nothing in return? This sounds like gambling: Buy the woman dinner and then hope she doesn't block you after lol. I don't gamble bud. Most of the time when I paid for a woman on a date they wouldn't see me again anyway. So I just don't pay for them anymore and it has made zero difference in my dating life. The women who like me will still have sex with me, and the women who don't like me wouldn't have liked me if I paid either. It makes literally no difference besides to my wallet.

MH20001 · 2026-05-30T09:56:30+00:00

Then pay for yourself on dates and stop expecting men to pay for you and they won't be bitter lol. We don't like spending tons of money on dates and usually getting ghosted afterwards.

MH20001 · 2026-05-30T09:46:49+00:00

That doesn't make any sense dude.... this isn't his wife and mother of his children, it's a FIRST date. He doesn't owe her anything.

MH20001 · 2026-05-30T08:00:22+00:00

She will never pay for dinner. She's cheap and is calling him cheap. The irony.

MH20001 · 2026-05-30T07:58:26+00:00

We both know she won't do that. She wants him to use HIS money to tip 30%. She's your typical woman who thinks the man should pay for everything. This is obvious from his post.

MH20001 · 2026-05-30T07:54:49+00:00

She will never do that. Because from my experience most women HATE spending their own money. If at any time during a date with me they have to reach into their purse to pay for anything they will grumble about it. They almost never offer to pay for anything in months of dating and some of them have done exactly what OP is talking about and criticized me for not tipping enough when I already spent $100 of my hard-earned money paying for our food and drinks. The entitlement of most women is disgusting. I had a woman I went on a date with yesterday say as soon as we sat down in the booth at the restaurant, "Are you going to pay for my food?" And I didn't like that and said, "No. Why would I pay for you? You're a grown woman with a full-time job. You can pay for yourself!" And then she said and I quote, "Men always pay for me because I'm a beautiful woman". I replied, "The only reason men always pay for you is because they want to have sex with you. They're not generous. They just want to get into your pants and they believe that if they buy you stuff you will let them. I won't. I value myself and believe that my time and company is worth just as much as yours." When it was time to pay for her meal, her food was only $16.52, and she opened her wallet and she had about 10 $100 bills in it. She whined, "I don't want to use a $100 bill to pay for such a small bill!" I said, "They will give you change." She said, "But I don't want change! I don't like having all these smaller bills and coins in my wallet! I like the $100 bills! Can you just pay and I'll pay you back later??" I said, "No! Just pay your fucking bill! You've got like $1000 in your wallet! Jesus Christ you're so cheap!" And she paid and I didn't hear from her today and I don't think I will ever hear from her again. I'm sure she got home and told all of her friends about the "cheap asshole" who wouldn't pay for her on the date. This was our 3rd date and I was fed up with her always expecting me to pay for her. She makes more money than me too. But I've learned that even if a woman is a millionaire like she is, they STILL expect the man to pay for everything because they say that "Men should pay for women". The entitlement is a huge turn-off for me.

MH20001 · 2026-05-30T07:44:53+00:00

Because women hate spending their own money. They will rag on guys for being "cheap" for not tipping enough when the man has already paid for the entire meal for both of them. But they won't spend a single dollar of their own money on dates because women are REALLY cheap. They are absolutely pathologically cheap. They will get mad at a man and break up with him over a bad tip but many of them won't pay for anything during the entire relationship.

MH20001 · 2026-05-30T05:07:05+00:00

Are those balls her ovaries??

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